call each of them seperately with a group of your boys,then tell her one of the guys is interested in her and encourage her to take it up. Note to ask youe budies to tune the chick infront of you. Then watch how she will take off.....

the situation is solved.........sort of

one lady (the one who i felt we are most compatible) reconciled with the ex....things are not so smooth as she thought,same issues that made them go apart have cropped up again.

the other lady spent friday and sato at my place,i refused to have mijinjo,even with protection,i insisted we have to go for vct after we know each other better because condoms can burst (it was extremely hard not hitting it,but i managed).........she was clearly offended by this and she hasn't tried to contact me since she left my house,neither have i contacted her ........i don't know whether she will contact me

i'm now left with one lady. I hope it works out,and the others don't try to come back.....or i don't get temptation to get back with them