...... you discovered that your spouse has been messing around with the housegirl (for the men) or the driver or the shamba boy? (for the women)?


nothing in this life is for free....

when hilary clinton found out that his husband bill clinton,then president of usa was cheating with a white house intern called monica lewinsky,she was in a hot dilemma. the media and everyone else was urging her to divorce the man who could not keep up his zipper. she thought long and hard and said,' when we married,i swore before God,family and friends that i will live with my husband for better or worse,for richer or poor in sickness or in health....and now since we are in for worse,i will give him a chance...i will forgive him..'

need we say more?


bY aNy MeAns NecEsSaRy.....

I agree with Jaribu on the better or for worse part. Work through it with your spouse. Not easy though,go to a counsellor (preferrably Christian but not limiting),the guy should end up at a point that he is truly sorry. I repeat,will not be easy but if all works out will be worth it.

'The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes.” William James

only hire females,that way you can do the gardening with the shamba girl and so can your wife! lol

Never thought of it,but a question will always be lurking,'why would she do that?'

Life is like an onion; you peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you weep. Carl Sandburg