kamundu wrote:@tycho. Suppose this was wife... Would you go ahead and let them keep the body?
Im not seeing how @ Pastor M is getting any help from your advice.
I agree we have national issues to sort, but at this time.. The family needs the body. So lets give advice or help to make this happen.
@Kamundu, when you visit the maternity wards of Kenyatta or Pumwani, you'll find many women with children who've not even received a visit from the fathers or husbands for months after 'discharge'.
For a couple in the 'slums' getting even ten thousand shillings is a huge problem, and it's so shameful even for the man to step into the hospital for a visit.
Just the other day someone was recounting what his father used to do during meal time. The father would cook a big ugali and two eggs for himself and announce that ugali was for all, but each was to find his own 'mboga'. That's how children end up dragging magnets along ditches and end dying as robbery suspects.
Most girls are wives when childless and young, after that they are on their own. That's poverty for you. It doesn't know 'wife', 'child', 'father', or 'husband'.
Am not sure @Pastor M needs any advice. Or isn't he a pastor in some church/ministry with a congregation? A diocese or something? Or am I expecting too much?
If there's anyone who needs help, then it's the bereaved child and I have no bread for him, only stones.