@kichwa
What you heard...was hearsay. As long as they dont come and tell you off on your face,go ahead with your original plan. People will always talk. Btw,it would be very wise to ask them personally about it too..am sure they'll be greatly embarassed:)
Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't..
Nevermind what haters say, ignore them til they fade away - Just live your life