Those things u cant understand leave to God.

The Hague...or Local Triburnal ama TJRC.

i've never believed in weddings..and i will not contribute a cent to help sumbody wed..if he feels that showy(which i believe weddings are for-showing off) to do a wedding,let him/her take a Sacco loan..ati mimi nimsaidie?aende huko..

rather cry inside a lamborgini,than laugh inside a Startlet

Pain,definitely a pain.

In my humble opinion,if you cant afford something,please dont beg to get/do it. Why do we think weddin ceremonies are excemptions? It is begging whatever name you give it. Imagine begging to get wife?!!!?!!

In life one must do some thing for himself:


Get an education
choose a wife
Get the wife under ur roof
impregnate her
cater for maternity and other bills
cater for ur own funeral

Most of all the other things in life,pple can/will do for you,lakini hizi,tafadhali do for yourself. Hata DC wedding ni wedding pia. Marrying traditionally ni wedding pia.


Baraka za Mungu ni za Ajabu

@miau

Last year in October,I received 4 calls from 4 different people and all were planning to wed their loved ones in December of that year.
-Person No. 1 was my relative.
-Person No. 2 was my high school class mate and cant tell where he got my number from.
-Person No. 3 a work mate and very closs associate.
-Person No. 4 a friend we regulary swallow together.

I was torn between the four and here was my badly damaged payslip coz of a plot loan I was servicing.

As much as weddings are good,I think they should be regulated.

For me,when the time will come,I will not do a ceremonial wedding but the AG one if all we want is a certificate,if church one,our church Roman catholic allows a wedding from a minimum of 4 people and thats what I will do.




Disclaimer : This is my opinion and not a recommendation.

Think others is total exploitation,...we once contributed to a former college mate,a month didnt isha before she enrolled for her masters degree,n mark u it was not a scholarship
so who funded this?????

I dont know what to say,I was the chairman and the best man. One year down the line they have separated Kabisa. Better ningenunulia watoto wangu nguo na hizo pesa.

BOBB

@wangura.....its better to live within your means.But with the crop of Nairobians chics,u have to live within their means.Ole u when their means is beyond your reach.

The Hague...or Local Triburnal ama TJRC.

Wedding committees and contributions attached are voluntary. If you feel it’s a rip off simply don’t attend / contribute. Personally I contribute to my close friends/ relatives and consider the contributions as future investments.


Forgive your enemies but never forget their names…

As someone said,no one is forcing you to contribute. If you're against it then keep off and stop complaining

@zzze123...future investment in what?to u this is like buying some shares?Please look further;its only investment if u have not wed(ded) and hope that they in turn will contribute towards your course,otherwise its a painful rip-off.If u cant finance a wedding,keep off and live your life.Invite pals to come over and witness and bless u>kwani whats more than blessing?????

The Hague...or Local Triburnal ama TJRC.