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We like what we like, we don't like what we don't like. There are no "527 Ways to Please Your Man"—we just want to be left alone to do what we do in peace. All Mushrooms are edible! Some Mushroom are only edible ONCE!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/27/2007 Posts: 2,768
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tycho wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Jus Blazin wrote:tycho wrote:Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? It's not true, it's not real, and it's not idealistic. It's false, illusory, and evil. Why should it be a woman's duty to make a man happy? Because the man is more burdened with life? Through toiling in the fields? Or is it because he is the 'head'? What makes a woman happy then? Listen to serpent's hiss. 'Only ultimate power and freedom can make a man happy. And freedom and power reside in knowledge. Eve wanted to be happy, and also wanted happiness for her man. But after her loving act, the man is always looking for excuses for enslaving her. It goes both ways. What @Um Sayala has noted is from the ladies' side. There's also the other topic of What makes a woman happy. So it's wrong to say it's not true or it's only the man who needs to be made happy. @tycho was not paying attention. He was sitting there pretending to listen to what @US was saying while he was planning what to say next  On the contrary. A woman can't make a man happy. And neither is the converse true. And neither can a person make him/herself happy! There's something sinister about talking of 'happiness'. Looks like someone here is still a virgin at his vast age.... ...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Jus Blazin wrote:tycho wrote:Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? It's not true, it's not real, and it's not idealistic. It's false, illusory, and evil. Why should it be a woman's duty to make a man happy? Because the man is more burdened with life? Through toiling in the fields? Or is it because he is the 'head'? What makes a woman happy then? Listen to serpent's hiss. 'Only ultimate power and freedom can make a man happy. And freedom and power reside in knowledge. Eve wanted to be happy, and also wanted happiness for her man. But after her loving act, the man is always looking for excuses for enslaving her. It goes both ways. What @Um Sayala has noted is from the ladies' side. There's also the other topic of What makes a woman happy. So it's wrong to say it's not true or it's only the man who needs to be made happy. I wonder where the ladies got their ideas from. Or the men for that matter. Can a man be happy while with a woman who's sick and can't do some of these recommended activities?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Jus Blazin wrote:tycho wrote:Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? It's not true, it's not real, and it's not idealistic. It's false, illusory, and evil. Why should it be a woman's duty to make a man happy? Because the man is more burdened with life? Through toiling in the fields? Or is it because he is the 'head'? What makes a woman happy then? Listen to serpent's hiss. 'Only ultimate power and freedom can make a man happy. And freedom and power reside in knowledge. Eve wanted to be happy, and also wanted happiness for her man. But after her loving act, the man is always looking for excuses for enslaving her. It goes both ways. What @Um Sayala has noted is from the ladies' side. There's also the other topic of What makes a woman happy. So it's wrong to say it's not true or it's only the man who needs to be made happy. @tycho was not paying attention. He was sitting there pretending to listen to what @US was saying while he was planning what to say next On the contrary. A woman can't make a man happy. And neither is the converse true. And neither can a person make him/herself happy! There's something sinister about talking of 'happiness'. Looks like someone here is still a virgin at his vast age.... Hahaha! So now happiness is about sex? By the way, can a woman who does these things make a foolish man, or a cruel one happy?
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/7/2013 Posts: 447 Location: Nairobi
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Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? with things like...'sasa, uko wapi huko nasikia makelele...bla bla bla...' that aint happening LOL You cant win, unless you first begin....
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/27/2007 Posts: 2,768
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tycho wrote:
Can a man be happy while with a woman who's sick and can't do some of these recommended activities?
Yes he can!!! just as long as he understands that she is not in that condition out of her own volition or choice... A basic example and not necessarily sickness... Your wife (hope you get one soon) gives birth to a bouncing baby...The first day from the maternity ward, you sleep for a total of one hour throughout the night and at 8:00am the following morning, you are in office with very red eyes...You know this situation will continue for the next four to six months, but deep inside you there is that natural satisfaction and happiness of siring a human just like yourself...Perhaps the real measure of happiness is determined during the upbringing of the child... ...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/27/2007 Posts: 2,768
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tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Jus Blazin wrote:tycho wrote:Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? It's not true, it's not real, and it's not idealistic. It's false, illusory, and evil. Why should it be a woman's duty to make a man happy? Because the man is more burdened with life? Through toiling in the fields? Or is it because he is the 'head'? What makes a woman happy then? Listen to serpent's hiss. 'Only ultimate power and freedom can make a man happy. And freedom and power reside in knowledge. Eve wanted to be happy, and also wanted happiness for her man. But after her loving act, the man is always looking for excuses for enslaving her. It goes both ways. What @Um Sayala has noted is from the ladies' side. There's also the other topic of What makes a woman happy. So it's wrong to say it's not true or it's only the man who needs to be made happy. @tycho was not paying attention. He was sitting there pretending to listen to what @US was saying while he was planning what to say next On the contrary. A woman can't make a man happy. And neither is the converse true. And neither can a person make him/herself happy! There's something sinister about talking of 'happiness'. Looks like someone here is still a virgin at his vast age.... Hahaha! So now happiness is about sex? By the way, can a woman who does these things make a foolish man, or a cruel one happy? No tycho...happiness is not just about sex...sex is just a physical expression of each others feelings just like the kissing but at a higher level... Both the man and the woman cannot engage in a satisfying sex unless they are both happy...you definitely know where the happiness is derived from... ...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:
Can a man be happy while with a woman who's sick and can't do some of these recommended activities?
Yes he can!!! just as long as he understands that she is not in that condition out of her own volition or choice... A basic example and not necessarily sickness... Your wife (hope you get one soon) gives birth to a bouncing baby...The first day from the maternity ward, you sleep for a total of one hour throughout the night and at 8:00am the following morning, you are in office with very red eyes...You know this situation will continue for the next four to six months, but deep inside you there is that natural satisfaction and happiness of siring a human just like yourself...Perhaps the real measure of happiness is determined during the upbringing of the child... By this you mean you are happy, because of these experiences you've had courtesy of your wife?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Jus Blazin wrote:tycho wrote:Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? It's not true, it's not real, and it's not idealistic. It's false, illusory, and evil. Why should it be a woman's duty to make a man happy? Because the man is more burdened with life? Through toiling in the fields? Or is it because he is the 'head'? What makes a woman happy then? Listen to serpent's hiss. 'Only ultimate power and freedom can make a man happy. And freedom and power reside in knowledge. Eve wanted to be happy, and also wanted happiness for her man. But after her loving act, the man is always looking for excuses for enslaving her. It goes both ways. What @Um Sayala has noted is from the ladies' side. There's also the other topic of What makes a woman happy. So it's wrong to say it's not true or it's only the man who needs to be made happy. @tycho was not paying attention. He was sitting there pretending to listen to what @US was saying while he was planning what to say next On the contrary. A woman can't make a man happy. And neither is the converse true. And neither can a person make him/herself happy! There's something sinister about talking of 'happiness'. Looks like someone here is still a virgin at his vast age.... Hahaha! So now happiness is about sex? By the way, can a woman who does these things make a foolish man, or a cruel one happy? No tycho...happiness is not just about sex...sex is just a physical expression of each others feelings just like the kissing but at a higher level... Both the man and the woman cannot engage in a satisfying sex unless they are both happy...you definitely know where the happiness is derived from... In this case I plead ignorance as to the source of happiness. When should a man proclaim happiness?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/27/2007 Posts: 2,768
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tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:
Can a man be happy while with a woman who's sick and can't do some of these recommended activities?
Yes he can!!! just as long as he understands that she is not in that condition out of her own volition or choice... A basic example and not necessarily sickness... Your wife (hope you get one soon) gives birth to a bouncing baby...The first day from the maternity ward, you sleep for a total of one hour throughout the night and at 8:00am the following morning, you are in office with very red eyes...You know this situation will continue for the next four to six months, but deep inside you there is that natural satisfaction and happiness of siring a human just like yourself...Perhaps the real measure of happiness is determined during the upbringing of the child... By this you mean you are happy, because of these experiences you've had courtesy of your wife? The experiences you are sharing with your wife, yes...Believe me tycho, in any marital union or any other natural union, if one of the party is not happy the other one will not be... Just tell me tycho, do you think those men that marry men are happy? ...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/27/2007 Posts: 2,768
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tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Jus Blazin wrote:tycho wrote:Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? It's not true, it's not real, and it's not idealistic. It's false, illusory, and evil. Why should it be a woman's duty to make a man happy? Because the man is more burdened with life? Through toiling in the fields? Or is it because he is the 'head'? What makes a woman happy then? Listen to serpent's hiss. 'Only ultimate power and freedom can make a man happy. And freedom and power reside in knowledge. Eve wanted to be happy, and also wanted happiness for her man. But after her loving act, the man is always looking for excuses for enslaving her. It goes both ways. What @Um Sayala has noted is from the ladies' side. There's also the other topic of What makes a woman happy. So it's wrong to say it's not true or it's only the man who needs to be made happy. @tycho was not paying attention. He was sitting there pretending to listen to what @US was saying while he was planning what to say next On the contrary. A woman can't make a man happy. And neither is the converse true. And neither can a person make him/herself happy! There's something sinister about talking of 'happiness'. Looks like someone here is still a virgin at his vast age.... Hahaha! So now happiness is about sex? By the way, can a woman who does these things make a foolish man, or a cruel one happy? No tycho...happiness is not just about sex...sex is just a physical expression of each others feelings just like the kissing but at a higher level... Both the man and the woman cannot engage in a satisfying sex unless they are both happy...you definitely know where the happiness is derived from... In this case I plead ignorance as to the source of happiness. When should a man proclaim happiness? When he is mentally and emotionally in a state of well being brought about by satisfaction or contentment, pleasure and engagement... ...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Jus Blazin wrote:tycho wrote:Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? It's not true, it's not real, and it's not idealistic. It's false, illusory, and evil. Why should it be a woman's duty to make a man happy? Because the man is more burdened with life? Through toiling in the fields? Or is it because he is the 'head'? What makes a woman happy then? Listen to serpent's hiss. 'Only ultimate power and freedom can make a man happy. And freedom and power reside in knowledge. Eve wanted to be happy, and also wanted happiness for her man. But after her loving act, the man is always looking for excuses for enslaving her. It goes both ways. What @Um Sayala has noted is from the ladies' side. There's also the other topic of What makes a woman happy. So it's wrong to say it's not true or it's only the man who needs to be made happy. @tycho was not paying attention. He was sitting there pretending to listen to what @US was saying while he was planning what to say next On the contrary. A woman can't make a man happy. And neither is the converse true. And neither can a person make him/herself happy! There's something sinister about talking of 'happiness'. Looks like someone here is still a virgin at his vast age.... Hahaha! So now happiness is about sex? By the way, can a woman who does these things make a foolish man, or a cruel one happy? No tycho...happiness is not just about sex...sex is just a physical expression of each others feelings just like the kissing but at a higher level... Both the man and the woman cannot engage in a satisfying sex unless they are both happy...you definitely know where the happiness is derived from... In this case I plead ignorance as to the source of happiness. When should a man proclaim happiness? When he is mentally and emotionally in a state of well being brought about by satisfaction or contentment, pleasure and engagement... A person may feel contented and positively engaged after seeing a mirage. So I guess one condition for happiness is certainty. Others would be power, control and objectivity. All these are impossible for the man driven by desire.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:Kaigangio wrote:tycho wrote:
Can a man be happy while with a woman who's sick and can't do some of these recommended activities?
Yes he can!!! just as long as he understands that she is not in that condition out of her own volition or choice... A basic example and not necessarily sickness... Your wife (hope you get one soon) gives birth to a bouncing baby...The first day from the maternity ward, you sleep for a total of one hour throughout the night and at 8:00am the following morning, you are in office with very red eyes...You know this situation will continue for the next four to six months, but deep inside you there is that natural satisfaction and happiness of siring a human just like yourself...Perhaps the real measure of happiness is determined during the upbringing of the child... By this you mean you are happy, because of these experiences you've had courtesy of your wife? The experiences you are sharing with your wife, yes...Believe me tycho, in any marital union or any other natural union, if one of the party is not happy the other one will not be... Just tell me tycho, do you think those men that marry men are happy? Notice how you put it; 'if one isn't happy, then the other WILL not be happy'. Not 'if one isn't happy then definitely the other isn't'. For one may be happy while the other is not. Interests and understanding do not always converge. Wouldn't a woman be happy to be rid of an abusive husband who is generally unhappy? You ask whether homosexuals can experience happiness in their relations, given the belief that theirs is an unnatural relationship. But does nature guarantee happiness? I believe it's more indifferent than inclined to happiness. But the other day when the U.S. Supreme court made their ruling on DOMA gays celebrated. Were they happy? They were, they probably are, if we go by your definition of happiness.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2008 Posts: 2,706
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First only a woman that is the right fit for the man can make him happy. By right fit I mean there must be some mutual attraction and this has nothing to do with what they do for each other, it is either there or not. You can have the greatest man in the world and the greatest woman in the world who can be completely incompatible and can only make each other miserable. They should both know themselves well and also know the other person.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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Um Sayala wrote:C$P
Respect him, Appreciate him, Cook for him, Make love to him, Don't bother him (too much)while he is out providing for his family, Always encourage & motivate him, Spend quality time with him while giving him some affection. Support him in accomplishing his dreams. And as long as he is NOT giving up on you ladies...Stand by his side & NOT behind him.
Lets share. Ladies is this true, real or too idealistic? Happiness comes from within, you are responsible for anything that happens to you and your reactions thereof, more like looking at everything from a half empty or half full perspective. Being content with who and what you are, accepting the things that you can change and changing those that you can. I do the things that make me happy or make me money coz to me money can buy some of the things that make me happy...
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 9/9/2013 Posts: 91
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The thread about how to keep a man happy has no sockets contributing. It needs to be more balanced. Ladies please help by sharing your experiences.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Mr. Sulu wrote:The thread about how to keep a man happy has no sockets contributing. It needs to be more balanced. Ladies please help by sharing your experiences. @CLK, on top of you(no pun intended) just did.
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 9/9/2013 Posts: 91
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Mukiri wrote:Mr. Sulu wrote:The thread about how to keep a man happy has no sockets contributing. It needs to be more balanced. Ladies please help by sharing your experiences. @ CLK, on top of you(no pun intended) just did. 
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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Mr. Sulu wrote:The thread about how to keep a man happy has no sockets contributing. It needs to be more balanced. Ladies please help by sharing your experiences. Wako kanisani, ngoja watoke, mtakiona...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/23/2009 Posts: 13,570 Location: nairobi
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KulaRaha wrote:Let him eat fish in the office... Hahahahaha
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