Congratulations @Washiku.
I am quite Surprised though that the thread is clocking 100 Posts and no one is telling you that Marriage is NOT a bed of roses. It is tough man. It Requires Sacrifice for it to succeed. Marriages do not Just work hivi hivi tu, not through wishing. You must put efforts and make it work - Lots of hard work Bro.Parties Must Forget themselves and Put the other's Interest before theirs.
Forget about the relationships that you see on movies and "the drum magazine" and face the reality now.
And by the way, ladies are hard to please and Understand! They are Complicated. If you Want to know, ask your Grandpa or Dad, or anyone who has been married for years.
All in all, mine has worked and I hope yours do. Lakini Usiweke googles. And also remember that you are the GOD's choice for Leader of the house. No Compromise.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..