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kysse wrote:Mukiri wrote:To pray for answers. And what word do you have for the men abusing them? This praying sometimes makes people take things for granted. @Mukiri,does your church advise couples in such crazy relationships to separate or divorce? or should they hold and pray till 'DEATH separates them? as the vows say? There is great power in fasting and praying. Don't try and simplify it. Owesmek
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/7/2013 Posts: 447 Location: Nairobi
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Mukiri wrote:
There is great power in fasting and praying. Don't try and simplify it. Owesmek
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/28/2013 Posts: 182
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2012 Posts: 15,980
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Sisi iko na sida kweli "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/2/2009 Posts: 2,458 Location: Nairobi
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Wakifiikia wa Kirinyaga, Embu Meru.. mniambie nianze kulala na jicho moja wazi
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 10/25/2007 Posts: 1,574
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This is really sad!  Problem is, now that this has been highlighted, they will come up with better and cleverer ways of dispatching their husbands to heaven. This institution called marriage is under siege! Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 10/25/2007 Posts: 1,574
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poundfoolish wrote:Wakifiikia wa Kirinyaga, Embu Meru.. mniambie nianze kulala na jicho moja wazi Kuna jamaa mmoja kutoka Mt. Kenya alisema, "Afadhali aoe msichana mjaluo kuliko kuoa msichana wa Kiambu". It must have been the viceroy + hot water.  Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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I fear for our sons!!
This trend is being passed from generation to generation from the look of things.
If a daughter grows up in an environment where money and property tops the agenda in family gatherings and nothing about values and personal development is emphasised, then money becomes the centre around which everything else including precious life revolves.
If she is used to being given, instead of learning to fend for herself,then such a lady will never learn to stand up on her feet when things hit rock bottom.This is why there are claims of 'man not taking care of me,feeding our kids ,paying fees' etc etc.And as a result revenge becomes an option when the man goes mia.Her life comes to a stop cz she can't think out of the box-never has.
If the man neglects his family let God deal with him cz He will,but taking matters into one's hands is hindering one's blessings and those of the kids..
Whatever the case,It's not even a Kiambu problem.The heart of a human being is desperately wicked, only the fear of God can save one from becoming the devil's workshop.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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kysse wrote:I fear for our sons!!
This trend is being passed from generation to generation from the look of things.
If a daughter grows up in an environment where money and property tops the agenda in family gatherings and nothing about values and personal development is emphasised, then money becomes the centre around which everything else including precious life revolves.
If she is used to being given, instead of learning to fend for herself,then such a lady will never learn to stand up on her feet when things hit rock bottom.This is why there are claims of 'man not taking care of me,feeding our kids ,paying fees' etc etc.And as a result revenge becomes an option when the man goes mia.Her life comes to a stop cz she can't think out of the box-never has.
If the man neglects his family let God deal with him cz He will,but taking matters into one's hands is hindering one's blessings and those of the kids..
Whatever the case,It's not even a Kiambu problem.The heart of a human being is desperately wicked, only the fear of God can save one from becoming the devil's workshop. Truer words were never spoken!!  It's sad to see adults who claim to be mature but cannot even take care of themselves, instead looking for spouses who can take care of them. As a man, I often ask some of these young gals, where do they expect to get a man who's as young as them and as rich as their dad? A man who's earned his money/riches honestly? Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/22/2010 Posts: 11,522 Location: Nairobi
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Rankaz13 wrote:kysse wrote:I fear for our sons!!
This trend is being passed from generation to generation from the look of things.
If a daughter grows up in an environment where money and property tops the agenda in family gatherings and nothing about values and personal development is emphasised, then money becomes the centre around which everything else including precious life revolves.
If she is used to being given, instead of learning to fend for herself,then such a lady will never learn to stand up on her feet when things hit rock bottom.This is why there are claims of 'man not taking care of me,feeding our kids ,paying fees' etc etc.And as a result revenge becomes an option when the man goes mia.Her life comes to a stop cz she can't think out of the box-never has.
If the man neglects his family let God deal with him cz He will,but taking matters into one's hands is hindering one's blessings and those of the kids..
Whatever the case,It's not even a Kiambu problem.The heart of a human being is desperately wicked, only the fear of God can save one from becoming the devil's workshop. Truer words were never spoken!! It's sad to see adults who claim to be mature but cannot even take care of themselves, instead looking for spouses who can take care of them. As a man, I often ask some of these young gals, where do they expect to get a man who's as young as them and as rich as their dad? A man who's earned his money/riches honestly? We are here(read me)...sadly I am taken... possunt quia posse videntur
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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jguru wrote:poundfoolish wrote:Wakifiikia wa Kirinyaga, Embu Meru.. mniambie nianze kulala na jicho moja wazi Kuna jamaa mmoja kutoka Mt. Kenya alisema, "Afadhali aoe msichana mjaluo kuliko kuoa msichana wa Kiambu". It must have been the viceroy + hot water. such men end up facing the same fate by women from their backyard. Like this guy back in college always sayoing how they were allways warned about akafete who would run away with property and kids after disagreement. Well he met this girl from near home in nyeri who 'trapped' him and he had to marry her. 1 yr later, the marriage was on the rocks and the gal went with kid n swept the house clean. Mpaka bedsheets hakuacha. O ye stereotypers, take heed . It is not the place, it's the person. BTW, who confirmed Faith Wairimu is a Kafetian?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/22/2010 Posts: 11,522 Location: Nairobi
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Lolest! wrote:jguru wrote:poundfoolish wrote:Wakifiikia wa Kirinyaga, Embu Meru.. mniambie nianze kulala na jicho moja wazi Kuna jamaa mmoja kutoka Mt. Kenya alisema, "Afadhali aoe msichana mjaluo kuliko kuoa msichana wa Kiambu". It must have been the viceroy + hot water. such men end up facing the same fate by women from their backyard. Like this guy back in college always sayoing how they were allways warned about akafete who would run away with property and kids after disagreement. Well he met this girl from near home in nyeri who 'trapped' him and he had to marry her. 1 yr later, the marriage was on the rocks and the gal went with kid n swept the house clean. Mpaka bedsheets hakuacha. O ye stereotypers, take heed . It is not the place, it's the person. BTW, who confirmed Faith Wairimu is a Kafetian? Asanteni sana btw I think you just saved my life there is this my ex whose surprisingly become friendly sana...she even wants me to visit her place for lunch tu catch up (no landing though she hints she wants it)...aki siendi i rem her warning me sarcastically though ati ye ni wa huko where guys have mentioned this things happen...siendi na siendi hata na dawa... in other news most men(read most not all) who are married treat their women like crap...what do you say to a man who constantly,regurlarly goes out every single day while the wife is 8-9 months paged....the retrogressive friends i talked about in an earlier post are all married,they spend the whole weekend club hoping with clandes (we call them loose balls) while their wives are at home...most of this fellows have wives who have new borns and other small kids ...for heaven sakes be there for your wife and not by monetary means alone...treat ua wife well...I purpose to treat mine well... possunt quia posse videntur
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Lolest! wrote:jguru wrote:poundfoolish wrote:Wakifiikia wa Kirinyaga, Embu Meru.. mniambie nianze kulala na jicho moja wazi Kuna jamaa mmoja kutoka Mt. Kenya alisema, "Afadhali aoe msichana mjaluo kuliko kuoa msichana wa Kiambu". It must have been the viceroy + hot water. such men end up facing the same fate by women from their backyard. Like this guy back in college always sayoing how they were allways warned about akafete who would run away with property and kids after disagreement. Well he met this girl from near home in nyeri who 'trapped' him and he had to marry her. 1 yr later, the marriage was on the rocks and the gal went with kid n swept the house clean. Mpaka bedsheets hakuacha. O ye stereotypers, take heed . It is not the place, it's the person. BTW, who confirmed Faith Wairimu is a Kafetian? I have never understood this part.How does a man get trapped and why would a man allow himself to be trapped? Is he a rat rat? I agree that some women are very cunning and desperate and will devise ways of hooking a man. But it's only guys who think with their 3rd legs who get 'trapped' by the cheese. See,Marriage is not by force and pregnancy alone is not ticket to marriage. Look here, any fertile woman can get pregnant but not every fertile woman can make a wife. Same to the man.Any fertile man can shoot arrows but not all sharp shooters can make husbands. So why risk marrying just cz you made one pregnant and why did you even make her pregnant if you weren't ready for marriage? Getting pregnant/Impregnanting another alone outside of marriage is irresponsible enough so don't raise the bar too high after marriage lest you get killed. So this trapping biz is an excuse for irresponsible sexual behaviour which dulls the mind and powers the 3rd leg, causing it to go roaming.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/20/2009 Posts: 1,402
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I think people should learn a principal that goes like "we shall be together as long us it makes sense to the both us"
Ikiacha Kumake Sense For Either... Leave N Let Live.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/20/2009 Posts: 1,402
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Mukiri wrote:kysse wrote:Mukiri wrote:To pray for answers. And what word do you have for the men abusing them? This praying sometimes makes people take things for granted. @Mukiri,does your church advise couples in such crazy relationships to separate or divorce? or should they hold and pray till 'DEATH separates them? as the vows say? There is great power in fasting and praying. Don't try and simplify it. Owesmek Agreed @mukiri
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/14/2009 Posts: 2,057
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maka wrote:Lolest! wrote:jguru wrote:poundfoolish wrote:Wakifiikia wa Kirinyaga, Embu Meru.. mniambie nianze kulala na jicho moja wazi Kuna jamaa mmoja kutoka Mt. Kenya alisema, "Afadhali aoe msichana mjaluo kuliko kuoa msichana wa Kiambu". It must have been the viceroy + hot water. such men end up facing the same fate by women from their backyard. Like this guy back in college always sayoing how they were allways warned about akafete who would run away with property and kids after disagreement. Well he met this girl from near home in nyeri who 'trapped' him and he had to marry her. 1 yr later, the marriage was on the rocks and the gal went with kid n swept the house clean. Mpaka bedsheets hakuacha. O ye stereotypers, take heed . It is not the place, it's the person. BTW, who confirmed Faith Wairimu is a Kafetian? Asanteni sana btw I think you just saved my life there is this my ex whose surprisingly become friendly sana...she even wants me to visit her place for lunch tu catch up (no landing though she hints she wants it)...aki siendi i rem her warning me sarcastically though ati ye ni wa huko where guys have mentioned this things happen...siendi na siendi hata na dawa... in other news most men(read most not all) who are married treat their women like crap...what do you say to a man who constantly,regurlarly goes out every single day while the wife is 8-9 months paged....the retrogressive friends i talked about in an earlier post are all married,they spend the whole weekend club hoping with clandes (we call them loose balls) while their wives are at home...most of this fellows have wives who have new borns and other small kids ...for heaven sakes be there for your wife and not by monetary means alone...treat ua wife well...I purpose to treat mine well... well said @ Maka If you are an eagle don't hang around with chickens; chickens don't fly....
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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Muheani wrote:I think people should learn a principal that goes like "we shall be together as long us it makes sense to the both us"
Ikiacha Kumake Sense For Either... Leave N Let Live. In other words, be as sensible as sensible can be. Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/7/2013 Posts: 447 Location: Nairobi
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kysse wrote:I fear for our sons!!
This trend is being passed from generation to generation from the look of things.
If a daughter grows up in an environment where money and property tops the agenda in family gatherings and nothing about values and personal development is emphasised, then money becomes the centre around which everything else including precious life revolves.
If she is used to being given, instead of learning to fend for herself,then such a lady will never learn to stand up on her feet when things hit rock bottom.This is why there are claims of 'man not taking care of me,feeding our kids ,paying fees' etc etc.And as a result revenge becomes an option when the man goes mia.Her life comes to a stop cz she can't think out of the box-never has.
If the man neglects his family let God deal with him cz He will,but taking matters into one's hands is hindering one's blessings and those of the kids..
Whatever the case,It's not even a Kiambu problem.The heart of a human being is desperately wicked, only the fear of God can save one from becoming the devil's workshop. You cant win, unless you first begin....
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