Sasa hawa over 70 people wanaangalia dada bila kumsaidia?

@Tams,

I may not have a solution for this one but i believe if your man can accept seeking medical assistance from a good hosi he can be helped. I read somewhere many men suffer in silence when they can actually be helped. Get him to see a doctor. May be now,we can have someone inform us of a good doctor who can assist him. May be even therapy. I hear these things can happen if the guy is stressed. But most importantly,you will have to be very very very supportive. if you make him feel you are not supporting him,it can make it difficult for him to recover.

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

@timbuktu,

I thought Dr.Karanja is a gynae?

I read somewhere that diabetes can interfere with the thing down there.May be this should be ruled out first?

Therapy will make it even worse! thats a girlie solution to a manly problem

Just buy enzoy and sprinkle generously in his supper.....and Lo and behold!


Me first,U next

@Tams,ed issues? I think i get the drift but you may need to give additional infor for one to give relevant advise or referal for e.g Has he always had the problem? How old is he? Do you have children? Have you discussed the issue with him and what was his response? etc


May we live in interesting times!

@ Njunge,you've made me crack a rib on a chilly morning.

Ati Rhino Horn Powder ! Too much sugar in the cane?

All in all,diet and regular excercise will get you out of the woods. Remember to reassure Mzee that all is well and be on his side throught!

Age isnt an issue here,there are over 70's who are still ploughing eg Mwananishi.


The Hedonist

thanks all for your responses. the guy has diabetes for quite a while now. ive tried everything in the book lakini wapi! now any effort from me makes him angry and grumpy and not fun to be around. by the way one doctor prescribed xrated ati we watch together! sasa mimi nachenka na migingo hakuna earthquake! hata tremor hakuna! na sasa niyo rhino horn nitatoa wapi? si i thot it was contraband? pls nitafutieni daktari. btw,why do men behave as if its the only thing that matters? surely there are other ways to make up for this small problem

history repeats itself because you took no notice the first time...

@ Donedeal. Pls dont tell me what you read in websites and bloggs shud be taken as the absolute truth.If age was indeed a factor then most men past 60 wouldnt 'rise up to address the jury' so to say.

@ Tams,if its diabetes then there is medication,but your man has to keep off alcohol and cigarettes. He should eat well,excercise and know that it starts in the brain.

Ask him about his sexual fantasies,dont cringe even if he asks you to blow his horn -:) Dont shy away from anything that will arouse him.

Do all you can,and when he turns round you'll be amazed by the spanking. The first time he does turn around will be a major phychological boost.

All the best,and remember youre not alone.




The Hedonist

Ajaribu Lincks,they advertise. But be careful with these people who practise alternative medicine. They are bloody expensive and most of their ideas do not work.

Going through the classified pages you will see ED treatment is an industry on it's own.


Fundamentals + Sentiments = Position

@lyanne,are you suggesting i take your word and ignore wikipedea....i don't think so!

As a jamaa,i am speaking from experience when i say age is a factor. When i was younger they used to call me 'The village bull'....These day's i find i can hardly keep up with the 'Jones' even if i wanted to. As a matter of fact,i look foward to a romantic dinner,cuddling in the sofa,watching a movie with the 'firstlady' than to the actual act.....i don't know what you call that but i'd say its age. Am sure it happens to women too.So there's no need to be in denial.....Age is most definately a factor girl!



May we live in interesting times!

My beef with these guys is that they do not have a lab,they were just using strips of paper for their tests which then showed that I had low blood sugar.Not convincing at all!When I protested the lady asked me whther I feel dizzy in the morning after getting up which off course was not the case.