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Rank: Member Joined: 6/22/2011 Posts: 561 Location: House
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essyk wrote:Shak wrote:It just dawned on me why so many marriages today are falling apart. haiya.lol!it started in the old testament,just that we weren't there. It falls apart cz 2 people deliberately decide/choose to break it apart.No excuse holds. eg.Mrs ngoyoyo demanding that Mr Ngoyoyo report home daily by 6pm.. 6 months down the line,he won't be reporting back for years. radio wrote:When you get back tell us whether you are a villager or urbanite? Define villager and urbanite plus the basis of your defination. @essyk ngogoyo here, ngogoyo pale ...eish! Could you be dreaming ngogoyo?  Points raised are true by far On that issue of ding dong ...dingoingo ngogoyo I have great news and will share in the respective thread by thur
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/14/2006 Posts: 1,311
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TD Jakes says that men and women speak different languages.
Communication between a man and a woman is like when the woman is speaking greek to the man who can only understands Russian. He thinks he has understood what she says and answers back in his native Russian language....she thinks she is understanding.... until actions confirm they are worlds apart in understanding each other.
Women are from venus, Men are from Mars.
Women talk in circles, Men talk straight.
Women process thoughts externally by talking, Men process thoughts internally quietly.
Women have feelings and emotions in their communication, Men understand facts and logic more than feelings.
Communication is the major problem.... we never understand each other.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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Shak wrote:It just dawned on me why so many marriages today are falling apart. It has to do with the way girls are raised today. Girls are today raised to aspire to excel in their careers. They are told they can do anything a man can. Little emphasis is placed on roles in marriage. For boys the message has not changed. They are taught that they are the heads of their homes. So girls having been pampered, well educated and treated well at home expect the same treatment from their husbands only to be net with expectations that are not in tune with their upbringing. They wonder why they should serve the man yet they were taught that men and women are equals. Power plays are the end result along with broken marriages We could blame the ladies but the men are to blame as well. I agree with you that there's a problem with the way we're bringing up our kids today. But I also think there's a bigger problem in men. They've become sissys and don't take responsibility anymore. A man main asset was integrity, keeping his word which in return earn him respect, that way anything you do or say becomes law.
BBI will solve it :)
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/22/2010 Posts: 11,522 Location: Nairobi
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cheating...from both sides possunt quia posse videntur
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/15/2011 Posts: 4,518
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Ngogoyo wrote:@essyk ngogoyo here, ngogoyo pale ...eish! Could you be dreaming ngogoyo? Points raised are true by far On that issue of ding dong ...dingoingo ngogoyo I have great news and will share in the respective thread by thur Shuu!! Mr.Ngogoyo Dingoingo. Wewe mimi Nachapa mateke pia Let me tell u a secret about us ladies. If you keep nodding your head to everything a woman says you become a sissy. We like it when you do what we ask you to do, but we hate the fact that you are a Yes man all the time. I don't know if you understand that. A good man says No and earns respect from his woman. "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/27/2011 Posts: 518
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Ngogoyo wrote:essyk wrote:Shak wrote:It just dawned on me why so many marriages today are falling apart. haiya.lol!it started in the old testament,just that we weren't there. It falls apart cz 2 people deliberately decide/choose to break it apart.No excuse holds. eg.Mrs ngoyoyo demanding that Mr Ngoyoyo report home daily by 6pm.. 6 months down the line,he won't be reporting back for years. radio wrote:When you get back tell us whether you are a villager or urbanite? Define villager and urbanite plus the basis of your defination. @essyk ngogoyo here, ngogoyo pale ...eish! Could you be dreaming ngogoyo? Points raised are true by far On that issue of ding dong ...dingoingo ngogoyo I have great news and will share in the respective thread by thur ha! hata hauitwi ngogoyo. Essyk reads it as ngoYOYO! Throughout. Anyway, Si hii Thursday ifike basi! eagerly awaiting the storo
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/15/2008 Posts: 16 Location: Nairobi
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I attended a PTA meeting last weekend and one of the parents who is a lecturer made quite a shocking statement; that she realized her fresher students, none believed in real love. They all think its all lust and convenience! They are all of microwave society mentality of good life, instant gratification and many things Maina suggests.
If you were to marry one from that group, will the marriage last?
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/28/2013 Posts: 182
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essyk wrote:@ big chick,at the old wazees meeting. @ shak,ur stats below. Quote:Divorce cases filed at Milimani are drawn from Christian marriages. In 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004 and 2005, the number of divorce cases filed at Milimani were 101, 115, 206, 296 and 295 respectively. In 2007 and 2008, the numbers rose to 357 and 369.
Hundreds of couples are seeking legal advice, with some law firms handling as high as 26 cases, and others up to 50 cases, in a year
On average, the registrar of marriages at the Attorney General’s office records about 174 civil marriages in a month, basing on the statistics of January to May 2008, when they had 697 ceremonies and 925 from January to May, 2009.
Mukiriiiii!!  say something. Is pre nup a sin?? cz I fully support it. Hapa ndio shida huanza. Pre-nup ya nini? Man must live!
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/4/2007 Posts: 656
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The thing is: Women are trying hard to catch up Earn like a man Rave like a man Drink like a m Be bosy like a man Cheat like a man Simply, Women have become men!! The way I am
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/15/2011 Posts: 4,518
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urstill wrote:essyk wrote:@ big chick,at the old wazees meeting. @ shak,ur stats below. Quote:Divorce cases filed at Milimani are drawn from Christian marriages. In 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004 and 2005, the number of divorce cases filed at Milimani were 101, 115, 206, 296 and 295 respectively. In 2007 and 2008, the numbers rose to 357 and 369.
Hundreds of couples are seeking legal advice, with some law firms handling as high as 26 cases, and others up to 50 cases, in a year
On average, the registrar of marriages at the Attorney General’s office records about 174 civil marriages in a month, basing on the statistics of January to May 2008, when they had 697 ceremonies and 925 from January to May, 2009.
Mukiriiiii!! say something. Is pre nup a sin?? cz I fully support it. Hapa ndio shida huanza. Pre-nup ya nini? Jua mapema mapema what you are getting into. People have become so materialistic and it's difficult to tell during courtship cz everyone is an angel It's just a safety precaution against materialistic minds. "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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