Muheani wrote:MaichBlack wrote:Muheani wrote:You have forgotten to mention that...i think i saw this on some thread here....that its also possible that most of us men here are rearing kids whose paternity we can not 100% ascertain "huyu ni wangu". We believe "ni wetu"
And we would rather not do those DNA's.
In my opinion, if you suspect a kid is not yours, you should get the DNA done! If he/she is not yours, you will be hurt properly once and for all then you decide on the next step. If you suspect forever, you will be in agony for ever!
Agreed
Question Is how Many of us Will Even Suspect...like The Wazua Girls Say, Dont Underestimate Them Women..
males thinkn their game is Up kumbe walipitwa Kitambo Na kina dada.
In that case you take samples from ALL the kids and get the tests done at wholesale price! You just tell yourself "because this things happen, let me not bury my head in the sand...". There was a company that was planning to start doing the testing locally as opposed to flying out the samples! This would reduce the cost drastically! And in any case the cost is negligible compared to the cost of raising a [neighbour's] kid.
Nothing wrong in raising a kid that is not biologically yours if you knew in ADVANCE! There is a HUGE difference between meeting a lady who already has a kid and having a lady [especially your wife!!!] lying to you a kid is yours na ni mtoto wa neighbour! The former is okay. The latter, somebody might have to die!
Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.