Haha,@Magigi,

I have to agree with you. There is nothing more difficult than hitting that toilet when one is peeing without sprinkling the last drop outside.

When i was young my mom was soo all over us about this thing that whenever she was in a bad mood over any other mistake,I would take precations by peeing huko nyuma ya nyumba. better safe than sorry.


I guess if you can't win with facts,you can always pen bile-laced,xenophobic rants to distract everyone.

@Mukiha,Congrats.Atleast you understand what marriage is by now.Keep it up till Jesus come



@Murenj,you are treading on dangerous ground!!!!!



@Pondi

I can hear you loud and clear.To be honest,most of the time you just tell someone to vumilia,all marriages has got challanges and its not a bed of roses the way people think.But just by listening to someone releasing his/her temper means a lot.What is important is that you keep it to yourself and try if you can listen to both parties.All in all,you might not add any value but if you take a burden to pray to someone,for sure you must see the result.So its God and not you.Remember God hate div......

On the practical line,it has been challanging.Sometimes,i try to add 1+1 in vain.For example,a woman tells you that she has denied the husband conjugal right for 6months or 1yr....It doesnt seem real to me.Sharing the same roof,i normally think this guy can give you dawa ya kulevya if he means business.Its hard to me and in short,this is another way of just telling someone to have side dishes which is like bring death monster right into the hse.

@Aggond

God has a solution to all problems.Without him we cannot make it.Our fear is justified because of what is happening arround us but we should just have faith in the most high.I also think that our parents contributes so much to the success/failure of most marriages.I rem my mum telling us that she could have left my dad but my grand pa could not tolerate such nonsense.Most of the time if she goes back to her place she could be brought back to her hse immediately.The old man used to ask her whether my dad is a witch,if she says no,she was being told to go back as in that could have been the only excuse and at the end she ended up sticking to Daddy upto date.So those days,for your doughter to marry and div..or seperate was a big shame and you will the loughing stock in the village .But of late,things have changed with the dotcom era.Its only God who has not changed,He is the same yesterday,today and forever.The bible says that we are not given the spirit of fear but that of a sond mind and boldness.FEAR NOT!


Without Holiness no man shall see God.Dear God,mould me to be a vessel of honour at this End times,to remain Obedient to your Word in all situations.Amen!

@ Ngwono

Lets try to rephrase this to reflect the true situation:

For example,a woman tells you that she has denied the husband conjugal right for 6months or 1yr

For example,a woman tells you that she has denied herself conjugal right for 6months or 1yr

Show me one man who will be maliciously denied (hehehe did i say that?) conjugal rights (particularly those rights) and he waits patiently for them to be 'released' Even the most straight guy will be tempted to sample outside,trust me! So,we may think we are 'denying the man' while it is actually 'denying ourselves' because he will be satisfied elsewhere.

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

@wendz

very true. Rarely would a man wait for sung a long time. After being used to operate that machine for sometime then someone threatens to keep it aside from him! Even if its labeled 'HIGHLY CONSUMMABLE. PLEASE KEEP OFF ! ' the guy will solicit for access from another source.
So its better for women not to think they are denying the guy from using. He will get another !

tash