Ajaab kabisa. Hapa naona insecurity, hypocrisy and naivety. Even more amusing is some believe the woman they date or marry is a saint with a spotless, flawless past. Bwana, if you knew utashangaa. The goody-two-shoes are some of the worst. Just recently, we read of the priest who denounced celibacy and married. At some point he was servicing 4 women at one go. You can rest assured, all 4 were and probably still are bible-carrying, choir-singing wife material.
All my friends are heathens, take it slow. Wait for them to ask you who you know. Please don't make any sudden moves.