Very personal

As you were told drink lots of water, this has always worked. I dont know about the Aloe Vera but Water works wonders and in hours

And people are only afraid of HIV and unwanted pregnancies. Going through all these, because of a few minutes of stolen pleasure doesn't quite add up, no?

Get your partner cheating... kick them out. Lest you find yourself writing to wazua.

Let his wifey massage the balls with a soft warm white towel to soothe the pains, although this should be done 4 hours before landing since too much heat kills the passengers.
All the best.

You mean, why am I not like you who worships illicit sex?

Boss, there is alot of joy my side of the divide. See, I'm not skirt chasing, drinking myself silly, treating diseases, paying heavily for sins et all instead I'm travelling, enjoying friendships and family the right way, eating good food the right way (very expensive thing especially in Nairobi). Basically living a stress free life. And I don't even worry about tomorrow because I believe in the creator of tomorrow. Now tell me about your exciting life.

Has the urologist ruled out prostatitis? I.e this is different from Prostate cancer aka older men's infection(condition)

@jguru, Thanks. He is a male, 30 yrs.

To ua Qs, As in blue;

-Has he ever been catheterised? A rubber pipe passed through to help in voiding urine?

Well at the radiologist, he once told me that a pipe was passed thru the penis to to suck urine before a some photos were taken. At this point the radiologis showed him some traces of tissues sucked from the bladder in which the doc told him these were the healing remnants of the infection. It was at thi s point that the photos revealed a darkish spot at the junction between the urethra & bladder.

- Is he of an age where the prostate could be enlarged? >50yrs.
he is 30 yrs

-Kidney stones? Trauma between the legs? STIs?
I may not be sure coz when the condition began, he was staying in college.

Been on this as well. But thanks coz prayers for me requires re-emphasis time & time again just as u have done.

@ chepkel, I wud appreciate suggestions.

The test with the catheter is called a voiding (micturating) cystourethrogram. Fill the bladder with dye, ask to pee, observe for reflux.

He probably has a blockage at the entry of the urethra into the bladder. An infection he might have had in the past might have caused this; and the infections he is having now are due to bacteria forming at that junction. Urine stays too long in his bladder, providing an essential culture medium for bacteria. The obstruction may also be causing pooling of urine in his ureters and the kidneys. Hydro-ureters and hydro-nephrosis are a major cause of kidney failure. Trust me, you DO NOT want to have a renal patient in your house. It will affect your life for the foreseeable future.

He will need another comprehensive cystoscopy, renal ultrasound and VCUG done by an experienced radiologist at a proper medical center. And you need to explain your concerns to your urologist. @chepkel, give her the doctors' list.