Rank: Elder Joined: 11/25/2011 Posts: 2,103 Location: Nrb
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mukiha wrote:Amores wrote:McReggae wrote:....I wonder why you are getting violent about this matter, maybe coz she held forte for your candidate in the last debate.....quoting gutter like dailypost with it's rumours everyday about Raila cannot be compared with Mukiha saying the plain truth about Martha, man y voters have a problem with her being single, you may delude yourself otherwise if you want!!!! I am not violent, i am just challenging this retrogressive thinking- that a woman is defined by the marital status.Sometimes,even with the best of intention,marriages do not work. I also mentioned on this thread that I do not not see the same harsh judgement directed towards divorced/separated or single men when they run for political office.It is the way we are socialised,it does not mean that we have to continue embracing and thinking that way,even when we know sometimes,it just has to be that way. What exactly are you guys arguing about ? Do you realise how far back into the dark ages you take women with your stances? In my places of work,i have come across many women,of different statuses,and i can tell you you that their performance was never judged by the status,and they all did well,in their various roles. Move on guys,the time to kukandamiza women i s long gone,that is why they are the ones calling shots in many enviable positions- they never let this kind retrogressive stereotyping bother them - even when they are not married or separated. I will tell you for fact,if it were not for UK,Hon. Martha would be up there in terms of support from the backyard. Any animosity she may face right now- on the ground-has nothing to do with her status- she led Gichugu for many years. I rest my case. Proud someone in support of everything the gender movement represents ! Na DNA ni TNA @Amores; I think you are being too defensive of women to point of sounding harsh. In fact, you are completely missing my point because you are assuming that I am talking about marriage in reference to women only. Calm down and see if you can understand what I meant when I wrote that " I believe that marriage can MODERATE A PERSON's character..." I am talking about MODERATING, not weakening. And I am talking about a PERSON, not just a woman. Indeed, I go on to elaborate by stating that "...whenever I do things, I find myself considering whether my actions will embarrass my wife." I am not saying this because Mather is a woman, or because she is divorced. I am saying it she is NOT MARRIED. All the other candidates are married and so they do not suffer this weakness. What does this mean even ?!!! I am happy
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