@Mukiha has a point.

All you ladies will try to justify how cool to be a single woman, but at the end of the day there is nothing beautiful about it.
- Sleeping around (Wamugunda) and begetting bastard children (of course if you don't care about God, then this does not matter),
- loneliness in your old age...
- etc

Many will give excuses that there is no good man. There are many men, some are already married, who says you can't be happy with them?

But you don't want to get married to alredy married man because the West told you so.

NOTE: By the way Dida is happilly married to three women. Two of them are learned and have careers. One is house wife. Read yesterdays paper.

I don't quite follow. Which paper are you talking about? All the points made here are from my head. All the points I made in the Mbogo Thread are also from my head. Whenever I pick something for another source, I ALWAYS acknowledge.

If you have seen the Mbogo story elsewhere, I'd be interested to know where....chances are that the paper lifted it from wazua and did not acknowledge - our newspapers are very bad at that....remember the Mutoko fiasco?

Not all people contributing here are ladies - Fact

And your thinking is also so retrogressive.

If you have a family, you have an interest in a spouse and children, all major stakeholders in political issues like education and gender issues, firsthand. A married partner and a home and preferably children, teaches one compromise, LONG-TERM planning/thinking, sharing opinions, guiding children, being humbled(even by your children or spouse), pursuing respectability because others are involved "kuwa na haya", self sacrifice (particularly when spouse lets one down) moderation and can be used to gauge suitability of a candidate by the quality of their family. Charity begins at home, Leadership starts at home.
All these are not the domain of married people with "good homes", but it is a very good tool to start gauging someones personal characteristics with.

Hakuna risasi ninapiga. Hii ni mambo ya zamani za kale unaleta in a rather progressive society. This is not to say that married people are not progressive,i am saying that times are changing,women are no longer measured by the marital status- It is not the objective of their life.

So you post,what exactly am i supposed to read mara ya pili na tatu? you start by saying "not married" and everything you gauge her on is based on that.

I did not say you have a problem with women- married or single ( maybe you do ),all i am saying is that your comment has no place in modern society. And i am expressing a personal opinion.

Bure kabisa.