Dash wrote:Shak wrote:Ask your doctor whether he or she has alternative pain medication that is safer than an epidural. They do exist. in any case labour pains start as mild cramps then slowly become more intense. its the body's way of enabling you cope with the pain. Its not as bad as depicted in the movies
You have clearly never seen a woman in labour!!
Well I have and many.
Not all women go through what movies try to depict.
I have seen women deliver without intense labour pains, many didn't even know they were in labour cz the pain wasn't as anticipated.To some labour felt like the usual menstrual cramps and in a few minutes the baby was out!!
The secret,be in great shape,eat well and exercise a lot till the D-day unless the Doc advices otherwise.
Trust me labour can be a very very easy and short process depending on a few factors.
Sometimes the cervix expands slowly without the woman knowing! just cramps, until its 'show time'.Mad dash to the hospital and baby is out.
Forget the many exaggerated and nasty stories you hear from angry women.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.