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essyk
#91 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:11:51 PM
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Joined: 11/15/2011
Posts: 4,518
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?


Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.


why?
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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ChessMaster
#92 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:15:22 PM
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Joined: 2/23/2009
Posts: 1,626
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?


Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.


why?


I'm a loner
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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essyk
#93 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:17:34 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 11/15/2011
Posts: 4,518
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?


Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.


why?


I'm a loner


why?
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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ChessMaster
#94 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:20:14 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 2/23/2009
Posts: 1,626
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?


Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.


why?


I'm a loner


why?


Its simpler. Have fewer issues with people and I'm happy. Its always easier to be yourself when you are not worried about how other people see you.
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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AlphDoti
#95 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:27:34 PM
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Joined: 6/20/2008
Posts: 6,275
Location: Kenya
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?

Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.

why?

I'm a loner

why?

Its simpler. Have fewer issues with people and I'm happy. Its always easier to be yourself when you are not worried about how other people see you.

@essyk good job.
@ChessMaster the question is why do you avoid people?
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ChessMaster
#96 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:30:20 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 2/23/2009
Posts: 1,626
AlphDoti wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?

Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.

why?

I'm a loner

why?

Its simpler. Have fewer issues with people and I'm happy. Its always easier to be yourself when you are not worried about how other people see you.

@essyk good job.
@ChessMaster the question is why do you avoid people?


I don't avoid people but I don't seek out people.
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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essyk
#97 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:34:48 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 11/15/2011
Posts: 4,518
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?


Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.


why?


I'm a loner


why?


Its simpler. Have fewer issues with people and I'm happy. Its always easier to be yourself when you are not worried about how other people see you.


I know what you mean.
I am not a crowd person either in real life.
But you what? It's a deliberate choice because I got tired of following other people's opinions and finding myself living their dreamsand getting tired in the long run.
I tend to function better alone because I learnt responsibility very early in life so I am a do it yourself kind of person.
Kinda weird but my strength fades and I become paralysed when I get many people involved in my life.Infact I get very confused and silly.

But I am not a loner because I network,adapt easy and get along with people in my circle.

"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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ChessMaster
#98 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:42:45 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 2/23/2009
Posts: 1,626
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
essyk wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
@ChessMaster, @Tycho, did (do) your father and mother love one another.

Do you and your significant other love one another?


Yes. I learnt acceptance from them. No I don't have a significant other,I'm not the kind of person people easily accept.


why?


I'm a loner


why?


Its simpler. Have fewer issues with people and I'm happy. Its always easier to be yourself when you are not worried about how other people see you.


I know what you mean.
I am not a crowd person either in real life.
But you what? It's a deliberate choice because I got tired of following other people's opinions and finding myself living their dreamsand getting tired in the long run.
I tend to function better alone because I learnt responsibility very early in life so I am a do it yourself kind of person.
Kinda weird but my strength fades and I become paralysed when I get many people involved in my life.

But it I got people I joke with and network with all the time.


Can I ask what the question was? Also been there. Used to be an outgoing person. Slowly I started seeing other sides of people and the reality shocked me. I have no issue with others or helping them but the way the world is,people have become objects. I have an issue with that. There is no connection anymore,there is just "what can you offer me".Its mostly what can I gain from you or what will you cost me.
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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essyk
#99 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:54:53 PM
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Joined: 11/15/2011
Posts: 4,518
sorry I meant 'But you know what'

Ok.Well lets just say that you woke up to reality.
Many people do things blindly to please the crowd and spend so much effort and energy doing so, while achieving little.
Life imho,is about realising one's potential.
Anything short of that, is a waste of space and oxygen.
So if being a loner is one way of helping you achieve that, then well and good.God is happy.
Who are we to judge?




"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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ChessMaster
#100 Posted : Wednesday, January 30, 2013 7:58:08 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 2/23/2009
Posts: 1,626
Oh,I get it now. But you're right.No need to judge,we're all different.We just have to learn to live with each other.
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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