seriously,they can be a pain in the ass,yes thts wot am toking abt,dealing with relatives and money,how do wazuans tell them,kip off.

Stop going home to greet paroz while dressed in a Sir Henry's suit white at the same time clutching a briefcase plus sharpshooter pair of shoes!

Dress like a hustler!

Its you who has let them become a pain its simple someone asks for money tell them you don't have at some point they will stop asking don't worry if they talk sh#t or what they think it doesn't matter.

I have brown coudroy trao I bought in 2004 at Gikomba just near the Machakos bus station; 90% of the times I have been seen in Shags I have always been seen in it!
It has a conspicuously dark brown patch on the left thigh area.
I leave my car 15 km away in the homestead of a former primary school teacher who is a close friend to me, in fact he is my grass-root informer.
I then board a pikipiki boda boda @50 bob to home.

Ngai,masaibu ya kuwa dongere.

On a better note,when you are faced with the dilemma of cash n relatives, always focus on the positive which is, you got both. Money and relatives.
What you do with both,should suit you.

BTW, only be harsh/tough on watoanishaji.
Relatives are very important in an African society, so those that ask for money just becoz they think you have excess money treat them like trash too.

Be a man. Or Woman. Tell them to give you a business proposal and amount of equity they'll put in

Impunity u just cracked me up

I have an uncle who would call every time with one story or the other. He would always ask for small amounts that in most cases you would not mind giving out but it became too much.

One day asked for 600, I gave him a 1000 as a soft loan which he gladly took promising to pay back. On the day he had promised to pay I called him and of cause he give me another date, this continued untill he started ignoring my calls. And with that my problem was solved.