It's shocking but my friend Jose who used to work with an IT firm in westlands got dumped by his wife of 2 yrs!Reason?he was retrenched and could nolonger afford the 15 k hse rent in Buruburu.And a colleague of mine at Jobo is currently admitted in hospital with Stress related illnesses,thnks to his wife who walked out on him and straight into the arms of some thug .And i now realize it's true what my Grand fada told me that the Only woman who will ever love you truly is your mother(and maybe sisters)..That was priceless advise from my old man and it's still priceless to brothers in this forum

Its the Economy..Stupid!!!!!

you have spoken like 10 people!! but in all fairness there are AFEW genuine ladies who will stick by their men even when the proverbial s#*t hits the fan..i know of a case where the guy,who is a super high flyer now,lost everything. yaani even his underwears were dragged off by auctioneers.. but the woman stood by her broke man and they started to hustle again,together,leo wako mbele kama mfuko ya sharti...

He who laughs last thinks slowest..

@ pondi

I like this line,sounds poetic 'you have spoken like 10 people!!'

nway marriage has always been for economic security first,other needs rank lower.

where i come from,my forefathers used to say ' mwari mwega ageraga thome wa ngia' i.e the beautiful girl only passes by the poor man's gate-without entering. Why,coz he would have nothing to offer her.

but times have become harder and a hell lot of chicks lack the patience to build it with you. wanata mwenye akonazo tayari!!!!!!

@mwabili......there is this saying that goes like 'in every homestead there is someone to dance to any tune that you play'........point is may be this loving lady's sistas dance to other different tunes than her's.......so you might end up with the one wa kutoroka from the same home!! even twins have different behaiours and likings.......

I am yet to see a woman who doesnt love her sons unconditionally........

If you have money that you expect to start using in five years,it now belongs in stocks.

@mwabili
i concur with wot u say..only mum will truly ever care for me.we have this kisii jamaa in our chamaa who was cleaned dry by his galfriend..a whooping 500 k was stolen from his bank account..he fell in love both heart and brainwise,loved the gal so much akamweka signatory kwa account yake.kumpatia hata ATM pin number...i dont blame him coz he truly loved the woman,just that she f***ed him up...and i dont think it cuts both ways..men r wont to marry out of their league,eg a degree holder marrying a form four leaver..and its rare for a man to dump his wife just coz she's bila bakes,infact,most men wuld rather their women stayed at home and became housewives..u feel me,pple?

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