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Wife has degree,husband diploma
Mwabili
#1 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:02:00 PM
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Guys,knowing women and the cloud nine they walk on when they are loaded and more educated,do you think a marriage where a wife has a degree and husband a Diploma can work?My bro with his Diploma in IT just married a UoN chick who did biochemistry.I dont see the marriage lasting...i c the wife chomokaring to luk fo a guy with a degree like her..

Its the Economy..Stupid!!!!!
PONDI
#2 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:06:00 PM
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shida iko wapi,wakitoa nguo all other factors cease to matter. besides you should be encouraging your bro to further his education,not harbouring negative thoughts. wewe una degree ama diploma.... or neither??

He who laughs last thinks slowest..
Fundaah
#3 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:08:00 PM
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The education disparity isn't great as long as they LOVE and respect each other......the man isn't insecure........it can work.

I mean fundamental analysis,you get me?

Fundamental analysis of a business involves analyzing its financial statements and health,its management and competitive advantages,and its competitors
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Mwabili
#4 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:13:00 PM
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@pondi,
i have neither a degree or diploma.after 4th form i went into bizness and believe me,huyo mtu ana degree tisa wont match me interms of networth..bizness is the way man..my bro is not keen on doin a degree too,he saw how successful i was and he wanna give bizness a try..he's doin well now with his oil bizness...

Its the Economy..Stupid!!!!!
leona
#5 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:17:00 PM
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Mwabili
Your bro definately knew about this when marrying this chic...so wachana nao. There are soooo many homes with the wife being more educated than the guy or the ife earning more than the wifey na bado they survive very well. what matters is the LOVE and RESPECT they have for each other. You sound like the kind of people who are still sceptical about inter-tribal marriages. Move with times bana....!

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ngwono
#6 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:23:00 PM
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To me its not a big deal,what matters is true love

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Mwabili
#7 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:23:00 PM
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@leona
what do having a degree and a Diploma to do with inter-tribal marriages?what happened to that grey matter between your forehead and ears...i'm a coastarian and my wife is kisii,wot the hell do you call that?fundaaah wewe

Its the Economy..Stupid!!!!!
Iganamagana
#8 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:25:00 PM
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You cant see the marriage lasting long? I think you are the problem in this case. Stay away from that marriage and it will last.

IGANA.
bidiiyangu
#9 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:27:00 PM
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like some1 said.........marriage is all about love,respect and commitment.

And before i forget...maturity matters a lot.


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Mwabili
#10 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:31:00 PM
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@iganamagana

if it pleases you to know..i'm happily married,to a form 4 droupout like me..but we're doin fine businesswise...we dont need your sympathy or money..

Its the Economy..Stupid!!!!!
brav
#11 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:32:00 PM
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@mwambili,You are right hawawesmek,give her my login name,i'll forward my email to her and we can talk bizness. kidding

i think you are one of those guys,it would hurt to relate with,'with your kind of thinking??' you are not only derailing your bro,but spoiling a good thing. and if you speak you ka-mind out to them,you'll have put assunder what God put together... that will mean wewe ni death.

Im sure your bizness needs your 2 cents more,so stop meddling with your brothers marriage. bure wewe


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Magigi
#12 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:44:00 PM
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@Mwabili: If you are a form 4 school drop out ( I guess you meant school leaver!),I understand you. If your bro also has no degree,then it will be dangerous for the lady to come to a community of 'unlearned'. Why? you already have the notion that,by virtue of her degree she will be disrespectful to her husband. Some men have a complex when it comes to education and money. And you and your brother are among this group. How I wish I could get hold of that lady to dissuade her from landing herself in the middle of fresh shit!!!
Iganamagana
#13 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:47:00 PM
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@ Mwabili,

I was not offering you sympathy. Neither do I have any money to waste. You seem to have enough anyway. All I said is that you seem to be the problem in this case. Did the couple ever intimate that they can not cope?


IGANA.
Njunge
#14 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:51:00 PM
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@Magigi,

School leavers just leave school never to come back...... ama....?......and drop-outs are the ones who report to school on Sundays only i guess.???.....aiii.....hapa iko an elephant...!!


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Bareta
#15 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:54:00 PM
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@Mwambili,

Marriage can take different combinations,there is no rule of the thumb for any two people! If they love one another they will live together no matter what. How many normal people are married to physically handicapped?

What's more this lady like any other woman looks for success in life and security (financial) in a man. How many graduates don't even have jobs? If your bro is successful in biz as you put it,this lady will be very comfortable.

BTW,what happened (you remember the SK chic single whose 5 yrs old son closed school and was looking for where to keep him busy?) And you had a daughter same age. You made a hilarious suggestion. Can you give progress report?


Chief
Goals
#16 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 2:07:00 PM
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@mwabili

Its your negative thoughts that kills successful families. I guess all you will be telling your bro in case of any dispute is coz of the education differences.What God has put together let no man put a sunder.

Love is not based on no. of degrees or money!
Jaina
#17 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 2:33:00 PM
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@mwabili.
having dropped out of form 4 and succeding in business is no mean fit. Congraturations!. But it doesnt make you a hero. Talking ill of your bro and seamingly wishing them failure in their marriage elicit's a curse. I only pray that you keep your arrogance,selfishness,money out of your brother's house n marriage. I pitty him if he is your junior coz he has a big problem in your name.

Shame on you!
jmichi
#18 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 3:05:00 PM
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@mwabili marriage is al about adastadin each atha.it doesnt mata ua edu or backgroud.by the way u sound lyk a guy i knw-& i must say am shokd by ua reasonin!what hapend! does gituro&patshw ring a bell.

if u resign in realizing ur dream u cease to live.
never outshine your master......robert green
jmichi
#19 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 3:06:00 PM
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@mwabili marriage is al about adastadin each atha.it doesnt mata ua edu or backgroud.by the way u sound lyk a guy i knw-& i must say am shokd by ua reasonin!what hapend! does gituro&patshw ring a bell.

if u resign in realizing ur dream u cease to live.
never outshine your master......robert green
Kasheshi
#20 Posted : Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:42:00 PM
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Why has mwabili gone so quiet? Ama he's feeling 'shame on me'

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