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Kaka M
#11 Posted : Thursday, October 04, 2012 2:55:25 PM
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Variety is the spice of life, employ some dialogue and get to an agreement that she will be accompanying you and the children once in a while and you on the other hand have days when you stay home and keep her company. Love becomes rich by way of couples going the extra mile for each other.
Has she always been like this or she changed halfway through the journey, which would be a sign of a problem, maybe depression which needs to be treated.
If it looks like its extreme and has always been the case maybe its a sign of problems that she may have gone through(an abusive parent/parents etc) causing her to start keeping to herself as she doesn't trust so many people.
This would be solved by way of counselling.
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QD
#12 Posted : Thursday, October 04, 2012 4:04:58 PM
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Try going out just you, her and the kids in some sight seeing areas like lake Bogoria so out of town. Build the family unit first by making her know by you all being out of the home setup you enjoy the family unit. Do this repeatedly as much as you can afford.

When she becomes comfortable with this holiday like family outings, introduce slowly getting to those bigger family get togethers, weddings, birthdays etc but remember the word slowly lest she pull back on all the positive impact you have made.

If she cann't stay longer in this groupings, granted allow her to leave mid way. Whenever she does this make apoint of telling her how you appreciated her company through what she likes and hopefully you shall have a different person all together and both will enjoy each others activities.
The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of confidence
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freiks
#13 Posted : Thursday, October 04, 2012 4:20:20 PM
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I think wazua is on great family where you get all kind of stuff you want. Its always good when you get all kind of advise and it remains to you to know which one to follow. I will introduce the guy to the wazua family so that he can learn from good, bad and ugly
Life is an endless adventure
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