I remember a colleague who would insist on joining us even after quiting beer,he would go ahead and order a fanta...he couldn't let go off the company...well,as soon as his cold Fanta landed on the table,we would equally order a loaf of bread for the poor chap,well a cold Fanta would go down well with a loaf and not Nyama choma....he couldn't take....the rest is history.
Litoro....What you are going through is what many wanywaji fear admiting....a) The fear of loosing peers.. b) The fear of seeming a looser... c) The fear of the brand '' compromised'' by the wife...You still want to live among them,though not of them.....there are great great sober people outside the drinking circles..see beyond the bar counter...gym,art. Music..church...Many more......
10% of road accidents are due to drunken driving . This makes it a logical statement that 90% of accidents are due to driving without drinking!
Consistency requires you to be as ignorant today as you were a year ago.
Admin, Luckily; age will one day transform me into an Elder.