Marriage is like a project,it needs project manaement skills just like any other but this one is a special kind where you invest your life forever.One need devine intervention during the evaluation process.Most of us when we fall in love we usually think thay it's two people affair to an extent that we do not involve God.i cant say that i know much but this is my 2cents..............anyone can add what they think
@kairitu
First one must make a personal decision of leaving the single hood club and joining the other
From there,definately you will meet your Mr/MissX,some call them Mr.Right which i totally disagree with since anyone born of a woman can never be perfect.So you are the one who knows what you like in a partner.You go in with an open mind but you make sure the demerits doesnt outweigh the merits.
Truth of Marriage is that someone saved cannot get married to a nonbeliever unless He/She backslides first.
But for a nonebeliever all they need is parrents approval,of course Gods grace and therefore prayers.If a Pastor will join them,then that pastor needs to councill them.
Bring paros in the picture & tap their blessings since they have authority over you.I can assure you that you will enjoy that life.Tho,most pple usually have issues that parents are always anti.....So long as it is the will of God you marry tat fella,they will welcome it.But for Paros in SK,please release your sons and dotas 2stat off their lives when the right time comes.
One truth that i might not shy from mentioning is that u might be a none believer or u dont just have mone 4a big wedding,by informing wazees and keeping a holy distant i.e not having sex b4 u are officially released to start ur life,then u are a billion times better than that brother or sister who is born again but are living in sin b4 marriage then finally they go cheat the pastor that its a holy wedding.Do you know that by then the pastor shall have just rubberstamped an adultery to proceed which will be a curse to that family forever.If you find your self in such a situation the all you need is repentance then you wed,it will still work.
Without Holiness no man shall see God.Dear God,mould me to be a vessel of honour at this End times,to remain Obedient to your Word in all situations.Amen!