[quote=bellshade]Hi all Wazuas,

Need some through advise.My galfriend is 17yrs younger than me and marriage is in the pipelin,am getting to 40s very soon and I have a child born form my previous affair. Now i need to get advise,Can this relationship have problems later on in our lifes considering the age diff,priorities and the lifestlyes of both of us.8-[ :-k 8-[ [/quote]


every marriage has problems..
its how you handle them that matters..
alot will be said about age difference, etc.. but at the end of the day it boils down to how u handle issues that may arise..

U only live once.. dont let a good thing go coz of age.. Heck she might even be good for ur blood pressure:-) :-) at 40 atakupeleka mbio mbio u will remain young and keep fit..

[quote=bellshade]Hi all Wazuas,

Need some through advise.My galfriend is 17yrs younger than me and marriage is in the pipelin,am getting to 40s very soon and I have a child born form my previous affair. Now i need to get advise,Can this relationship have problems later on in our lifes considering the age diff,priorities and the lifestlyes of both of us.8-[ :-k 8-[ [/quote]

Assuming you are 37, then she must be 20. I bet the fact that you have realised that you'll have different priorities, lifestyles etc, then you know where the problems may arise... Problems are always there in marriage, and many of them are not "age-difference" related.... but having said that, sometimes a huge age difference can prove difficult if not well handled... especially because of different life perspectives. If there are any problems, they may have cropped up during courtship - unless its a blind date. If none has cropped up, then life is good because it might mean you can handle them in future... if major ones have cropped up, trust me, they can only get worse with "familiarization" if not well handled.

[quote=McReggae]Ai, huyo ni mtoto kwako jameni!!!![/quote]


kwani unataka akuwachie... kila nyani na starehe zake..

[quote=bellshade]Hi all Wazuas,

Need some through advise.My galfriend is 17yrs younger than me and marriage is in the pipelin,am getting to 40s very soon and I have a child born form my previous affair. Now i need to get advise,Can this relationship have problems later on in our lifes considering the age diff,priorities and the lifestlyes of both of us.8-[ :-k 8-[ [/quote]




Hii ndio shida ya kunyemelea campus students. She came, she saw, she stuck

@chemos thanks,@mcReggae, we are looking for advise here not -ve answers