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Caroline Mutoko! Inciter or Motivator???
Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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Man where did you find this link? Its on point viDEADLY!!!! More women should read this (I have highlighted it for more prominence)
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/18/2008 Posts: 377
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@ Wendz, kweli kabisa. I smile when my daughters stand up to fight for their space. They cannot and are not door mats. But I differ to some extend with that Carol believes in- arrogance and standards that are not sustainable have got no place in society.
@ Mkeiyd and Alma, well said. Happiness is not in class/intercon standards. It's in the little things of life which are available everywhere. And who says that being average is not good enough? When we look around ourselves/our lives and reflect on who could be thought of as successful (as relative as it is), you will be surprised at the number of people who went to average schools, are of average character et al who are very successfully. Let us not cheat our sisters, our daughters that you only excel when you date a man who can afford to take you to Hilton for lunch.
Carol's erratic, arrogant and unpredictable demeanour is a reflection of her socialization/upbringing. she has never come to terms with herself. For those with teen daughters/sisters, let them read emotional intelligence by Goleman, its an eye opener on matters life. "You've never lived until you've almost died; for those who have fought for it, life has a flavour the protected will never know."
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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@mkeiyd, those are words of wisdom 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/15/2011 Posts: 4,518
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If I start judging people based on their quality of their relationships whether single or married,I would only be left with my ghost.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2008 Posts: 2,723
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alma wrote:@quicksand. You can take this to the bank. Those two you mentioned would never give such a nonsensical talk.
Wear trousers that hit the knee, men are visual upus....no wonder bado yuko pekee yake. Still looking for that jamaa. Sorry sell by date imepita.
Ladies, if you really need advice on men, talk to your grandmothers. They have dealt with 3 generations of men, and have seen it all.
These old MILF's really have only bile and bitterness to spread around. lol
I just managed to get myself to see it. Glad I did....lol
You have spoken like 7 wazees @alma.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/20/2007 Posts: 4,432
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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Quote:Average is Kiss FM
Before you start calling other people average, just because you bought a car, THINK.
Kiss FM is an average station, with lower than average content and honestly only average people bother tuning to it. I say that because if a station can lose out to one Maina and Kigangi that is a soft porn station, you really cannot consider yourself, NOT AVERAGE.
Just because 1 million Kenyans tune in to a show, does not make it NOT AVERAGE. There are 40 million Kenyans and statistically it is possible to have 1 million AVERAGE Kenyans listening to you.
Ukweli usemwe!
Quote:I hope I’m wrong, but it seems someone may have made a wrong decision with their choice of boyfriends. Now has joined the “men are devils” brigade. And wants to say the following
Buy a mercedes benz, adopt a child, sleep alone every night (unless you get sausage funga) and you will be a very very successful Kenyan lady.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/15/2011 Posts: 4,518
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Quote:sleep alone every night (unless you get sausage funga) and you will be a very very successful Kenyan lady.
like seriously? would you tell ur daughter such?
it's criminal for a single lady to sleep alone?
Do you know how many married fellows sleep in separate rooms/ beds yet they are under same roof?
Do u know how many wives/husbands sleep in children's room,servant quartes or worse still the couch but will pretend the following day?
Lets be real.If u ain't married,if u are widowed,if you are divorced/separated it's better to sleep alone than invite sickness and prostitution into ur bedroom
wacha tu I dont want to give examples I know including a pastor. "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/11/2009 Posts: 132 Location: nairobi
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I wish someone had told me this a long time ago,I choose the humble submissive route and let my man do nothing for me because I didn't want to "stress" him with money talks or asking him to take me to decent food joints for our dates and he treated me like you would gum stuck under your shoe.
Sometimes he would contribute 100/= for the morning after pill and ask me to contribute the balance of 50/=
When it came to commitment he wanted a come we stay or to go to the attorney's because he said he couldn't afford a wedding or to pay any dowry.
We parted ways because apart from me working (paid attachment) a 9-5pm job and living with my parents who expected me to help out at home with dinner and chores -I had a younger brother and we had no househelp- he wanted me to go to his house daily after work and cook his dinner then clean his clothes on Saturday and visit his mother with fruits and chapati on Sunday after giving him "landing rights" the whole saturday/sunday night.
3months later he was seeing someone new and I would see them pass by our offices carrying bags of take away from expensive eateries and expensive wine.
He married her and the wedding was aired on the wedding show with glitz and glamor and he talked about how he had to give her a traditional wedding before she allowed him to marry her in church.
Its true,men judge you by the standards you set for yourself,if a man doesn't feel like he is sacrificing anything for you,be it money,time or commitment you lose value in his eyes,we value what we sacrifice for.
Time is a great teacher...unfortunately it kills all its pupils.
Don't fight a battle if you gain nothing by winning.” Erwin Rommel
When I was a child, I spoke like a child, thought like a child, and reasoned like a child. When I became an adult, I no longer used childish ways.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/10/2008 Posts: 9,131 Location: Kanjo
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luttz wrote:@ Wendz, kweli kabisa. I smile when my daughters stand up to fight for their space. They cannot and are not door mats. But I differ to some extend with that Carol believes in- arrogance and standards that are not sustainable have got no place in society.
@ Mkeiyd and Alma, well said. Happiness is not in class/intercon standards. It's in the little things of life which are available everywhere. And who says that being average is not good enough? When we look around ourselves/our lives and reflect on who could be thought of as successful (as relative as it is), you will be surprised at the number of people who went to average schools, are of average character et al who are very successfully. Let us not cheat our sisters, our daughters that you only excel when you date a man who can afford to take you to Hilton for lunch.
Carol's erratic, arrogant and unpredictable demeanour is a reflection of her socialization/upbringing. she has never come to terms with herself. For those with teen daughters/sisters, let them read emotional intelligence by Goleman, its an eye opener on matters life.
well put.
i.am.back!!!!
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