Maybe she should write a book How to Get a Real Man and Keep Him

Hooray, I managed to post a pic

AlphDoti, Guest (15), luttz, McReggae, mkeiyd, MutantJ Na huyu mama ako na nguvu. She has managed to assemble all these people on a Friday evening! Wapi pombe?

this woman used to be cute but is it old age ??

@alma. You always say it like it is. The best person to advice any lady is the grandma. Setting standards is okay, but you have to look around , assess your "environment" before coming up with those standards. I'm a man who likes people of substance,but what Carol is advocating gets lost when she starts on "Kwa Njuguna's" and stuff. The essence of life is HAPPINESS!. It doesn't matter how you find happiness,be happy so long as it's moral. You at kwa njuguna and happy with your boyfie/huzie,that's as good as it gets. I hate those fancy clubs,most of the patrons are not real and you can never be truly happy if you fake it. But i go to places where they play all sorts of music including mugithi and katumba and be thoroughly happy and entertained. I know both worlds and i see true happiness where people don't focus on the outside [the crowd/the celebs/the cars parked outside] etc. Where people don't give a hoot who has just walked in, for they are deeply immersed in HAPPINESS. Not the sort of places you go and heads seem to be spinning all night to spot who's[celeb/ceo] just walked in in order to update one's status on facebook or tweet about the place they are and with whom. If carol is telling women can only be happy by being taken to those fancy clubs,are all good men there? Does it mean a guy who hangs out in fancy clubs has standards than some guy who never steps in fancy clubs but runs a string of businesses and has character? What Carol is advocating has to be toned down with words of wisdom for it to help our ladies. Did carol bother telling them about how that has worked out with her? I mean,what other better example than that?She talked about herself and kissfm, is that a relationship? I've heard with women saying they wouldn't need a man if they were wealthy/successful,those are lost souls. A man in one's life is not for wealth nor material things.He's for companionship. Those ladies who talk of sausage funga,do they ever think thru' that? That's being nothing but a whore and as you grow older,opportunities for sausage funga diminishes, then loneliness sets in and before we know it, we are reading on wazua, a thread titled LONELINESS. Lastly but not least,standards are not about MATERIAL possessions, they are about CHARACTER.