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summoned by the head teacher
AlphDoti
#1 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 9:49:00 AM
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The head teacher wrote in the school diary of my class one boy that I go to see her over a matter.
I inquired from him what happened in school yesterday. He told me that while playing,a 'kite' got stuck on a tree.
Him and other boys tried to hit at it to make it fall down. In the process a stone hit a car,which was parked in compound.

I planned to go and hear what the head teacher has to say. But it looks like I'll be held up in a meeting. I will call instead.

In the meantime my wife just callled me saying the owner of the car called her demanding payment for the broken car window.
I told her I will call the school immediately to speak to the head teacher.

Has anyone handled such matters concerning their children at school? What is the right thing to do? Isn't the school responsible for watching what the kids do? I don't want to take responsibility for something unnecessarilly.

I will be speaking to the teacher in the afternoon. Please advice.
zamali
#2 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:30:00 AM
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Please pay for the damage.

It is handled the same way just like in a flat where kids playing scratch paintwork off a car. It is the parent(s) who pay for the damage...not the watchman or caretaker !


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Njunge
#3 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:51:00 AM
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In an ideal situation,you would expect the school management to warn all visitors that they park cars in the compund at their own risk.Here,risks include raining stones or UFOs.You may not have much of an otherwise other than to pay.It's part of the price you pay for being a parent.

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FundamentAli
#4 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:04:00 AM
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An interesting case where the student goes with a knife to school and confronts the teacher proves that the school are not always responsible for the action of their student.

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Kaigangio
#5 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:34:00 AM
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@ alphadoti

I think the best thing is to first determine where this car was parked..was it in a prohibited area or was it packed where visitors are required to park??? reasoning here is that you dont expect a player to pay for a windscreen of a car shattered by a football during a game when it is parked right next to the goal post....if the car was parked on a prohibited area which to me this would mean where the children do their playing in addition to the playing field then tell the car owner to go to hell.

In case it was in the right place,then negotiate with the owner and tell him to treat the case as an accident. In this case the owner can alert the insurance company where he has insured the car for compensation,and then you pay the excess...


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#6 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 3:20:00 PM
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Yep,first verify if the car was properly parked.

Secondly I am of the opinion that where your son and a group of other kids were hurling rocks,the damage should be collectively borne by the school or the group of children. How did they even determine that it was your son who broke the windscreen.

Otherwise in my opinion,the school should pay for the damage. The school must assume responsibility for students actions for the duration of the school hours.


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#7 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 5:40:00 PM
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@zamali is probably the only parent among all who have contributed. Your child is an extension of yourself. If you smashed someone's window who would be liable?
Dexter
#8 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 7:06:00 PM
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First determine whether your child was the one who struck the car.

If he is the one,pay for the damage. How would u feel if the same happened to your car and then the parent goes to city council to check whether it was a designated parking area?

Think about what you are teaching your child also. What would you like him to learn from this experience?
Kusadikika
#9 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 7:19:00 PM
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Pay on behalf of your son but put it as a debt on his account. Let him pay the debt by doing a task you assign him apart from his regular tasks. Make sure he fully compensates for the monetary loss by putting a wage value on his labour. Next time he thinks of throwing a stone let him think of the cost as well.

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AlphDoti
#10 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 1:07:00 PM
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Thank you all for your answers. I'm equiped with necessary considerations now.
I'm meeting the car owner at school tomorrow.


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