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Rude shock for Kenyan men facing strong US family law
Impunity
#11 Posted : Monday, February 13, 2012 7:01:28 AM
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luttz wrote:
Quite unfortunate but the west is a no go for me. Most of my mzungu colleagues are in their second or third marriages and they continue to maintain the earlier wives and kids; they gave up homes etc. They are just a miserable lot. Scandinavian countries are equally the same. One guy went home on leave only fo find the wife with a new partner in the matrimonial home; utado?


If this is what vision2030 is in store for us then I would rather remain visionless;For real.
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Ms Mkenya
#12 Posted : Monday, February 13, 2012 9:38:44 AM
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muganda wrote:
I understand a man having to support his off-spring and avowed wife after separation. But this situation where a man Is compelled to provide for children that are not his (1.6m) and for an ex-wife who has a job/lover/owes you money. Gosh! In return for what !#?...

US Law should similarly require the woman to provide conjugal rights (for the man's sake), weekly and passionately, after he has similarly moved on. Now that's fair and square.



Laughing out loudly Applause I agree with you on this one. The biological father should support his children!

Like @Luttz, the west does not quite appeal to me one bit. Visiting, yes but then come to home sweet home.. Najivunia kuma Mkenya smile
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Kihangeri
#13 Posted : Monday, February 13, 2012 10:01:07 AM
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luttz wrote:
Quite unfortunate but the west is a no go for me. Most of my mzungu colleagues are in their second or third marriages and they continue to maintain the earlier wives and kids; they gave up homes etc. They are just a miserable lot. Scandinavian countries are equally the same. One guy went home on leave only fo find the wife with a new partner in the matrimonial home; utado?


There are situations which demand serious measures. Ati in my house and on my bed? Someone has to die. I would rather spend the rest of my life in jail or get hanged also but someone would die a very painful death.

The worst part, never ever use me to get you to America through marriage or marriage proposals and then out of the blue, you leave me without a house etc, I would spend all my life planning and financing a plan that would leave you regretting the day you were bone or borned. Kinugu!
By inference, the man is all that Mr Phantom is not: an untrustworthy radical, divisive, too many enemies, a dictator, and a persistent liar...
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Drunkard
#14 Posted : Monday, February 13, 2012 5:27:50 PM
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I think people ignore the fact that, if you live in USA for over 5 yrs and then you go back and get a wife in Kenya, you're probably problematic yourself. Most of this guys lived in USA for a long time and have to go back to find a wife because they have issues and cannot find a woman who can put up with them in the USA so they have to go to Kenya to look for someone but once that someone live with them they realize that they're living with a problematic person and I believe they have a right to walk away even if the guy paid everything to get them to the USA because I believe they were decieved!

livie
#15 Posted : Tuesday, February 14, 2012 5:06:33 PM
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Ms Mkenya wrote:
muganda wrote:
I understand a man having to support his off-spring and avowed wife after separation. But this situation where a man Is compelled to provide for children that are not his (1.6m) and for an ex-wife who has a job/lover/owes you money. Gosh! In return for what !#?...

US Law should similarly require the woman to provide conjugal rights (for the man's sake), weekly and passionately, after he has similarly moved on. Now that's fair and square.



Laughing out loudly Applause I agree with you on this one. The biological father should support his children!

Like @Luttz, the west does not quite appeal to me one bit. Visiting, yes but then come to home sweet home.. Najivunia kuma Mkenya smile


is it a typo ama read as u see...?
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#16 Posted : Tuesday, February 14, 2012 5:17:32 PM
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livie wrote:
Ms Mkenya wrote:
muganda wrote:
I understand a man having to support his off-spring and avowed wife after separation. But this situation where a man Is compelled to provide for children that are not his (1.6m) and for an ex-wife who has a job/lover/owes you money. Gosh! In return for what !#?...

US Law should similarly require the woman to provide conjugal rights (for the man's sake), weekly and passionately, after he has similarly moved on. Now that's fair and square.



Laughing out loudly Applause I agree with you on this one. The biological father should support his children!

Like @Luttz, the west does not quite appeal to me one bit. Visiting, yes but then come to home sweet home.. Najivunia kuma Mkenya smile


is it a typo ama read as u see...?

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