Greetings wazuans,

First I wuld like to thank you for helping me numerous of time with your valuable advice.Now the problem.

My wife is unable to use the regular contraceptives due to the side effects and ignorance which led to her getting unplanned baby.

Now to avoid future slip ups I have decided to be proactive vasectomy is out which leaves me with either Condom or any other good male contraceptives.

The problem is I have never used Condoms b4, so the other day buying them was just hard work, after buying them using them was so uncomfortable am now stressed and I somehow feel guilty using the condom.Am a bit religious.

Can you please help me with the best way to avoid siring another unplanned kid, using healthy male contraceptives.

Your help will be greatly appreciated.

The wazua spirit.

Natural way.....!!!!

Hii ni kusema nini? You sound so detached from your own wife. "Ati which led her?"

How did she use contraceptives yet conceive a kid? Which are these? She should change and see whether the new contraceptives aren't affecting her. She should visit a family planning clinic/MCH and get all the facts very well. Remember too that contraceptivees arent effective if conception has already taken place.

My friend, get a vasectomy or get her to get her tubes tied because it's obvious you're both ignorant when it comes to contraceptives.

Btw do you think this is the right forum for this? Wouldn't you rather see a doc?