I thought if I told you Skerians to read save for a few most would not,hence decided to post it here. Proverbs 31:10-31


A Wife of Noble Character

10 [b]Who can find a virtuous and capable wife?
She is more precious than rubies.
11 Her husband can trust her,
and she will greatly enrich his life.
12 She brings him good,not harm,
all the days of her life.

13 She finds wool and flax
and busily spins it.
14 She is like a merchant’s ship,
bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household
and plan the day’s work for her servant girls.

16 She goes to inspect a field and buys it;
with her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She is energetic and strong,
a hard worker.
18 She makes sure her dealings are profitable;
her lamp burns late into the night.

19 Her hands are busy spinning thread,
her fingers twisting fiber.
20 She extends a helping hand to the poor
and opens her arms to the needy.
21 She has no fear of winter for her household,
for everyone has warm[c] clothes.

22 She makes her own bedspreads.
She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns.
23 Her husband is well known at the city gates,
where he sits with the other civic leaders.
24 She makes belted linen garments
and sashes to sell to the merchants.

25 She is clothed with strength and dignity,
and she laughs without fear of the future.
26 When she speaks,her words are wise,
and she gives instructions with kindness.
27 She carefully watches everything in her household
and suffers nothing from laziness.

28 Her children stand and bless her.
Her husband praises her:
29 'There are many virtuous and capable women in the world,
but you surpass them all!'

30 Charm is deceptive,and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised. 31 Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.

May have been written ages ago but still very relevant today!!

Baraka.

lyanne..too predictable!
i hear soo many demonic $hit that women do to keep their husbands,never been a witness to any so i cant tell.
stuff about being a friend before being a lover cant work in our 'new' society,everyone seems to be in a hurry,we are blinded by western overating sex,our gurdians are lost trying to catchup with us ..

giaku nikiria kii nda,icingi ni cia muingi!!!!

@ lyanne,of course its hard...if your lazy.... get the basics n work on the rest.

@mlefu,those who are in a hurry,be kind enough to step aside and let them through....they will make good humor in the days ahead..

The thicker the thigh the sweeter the pie.

U pple we wa at number 4.

@ lyanne,

I agree with you,women weren't meant to search.

To keep a woman from straying,i responded,look down :) for the answer..

The thicker the thigh the sweeter the pie.

karigu..the answers are there only that SKerians have not gone or will never go through them...i like the fact that most Skerians speak from experience(personal)

giaku nikiria kii nda,icingi ni cia muingi!!!!

Mlefu mlefu stop kikuyunizin my name.nìwaigua

Weee @Cary let the thread flow to wherever it goes.... wacha hizo controls... kwani you are a control freak? ikitaka kwenda kunywa maji,thts what makes SK interesting.. you start a thread on cars,it goes to the bin!!! thats the way things are supposed to go around here... so wachana nayo! some of us are enjoying the flow.

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

@wendz,am no control freak,nd for the respect i have for you bcoz of your contributions here in sk am re editin the thread to its original version

@all i think the only problem is fairness in marriage,picture this a married couple,both work nd contribute 50:50 for the bills,bt the wify wakes up before the man,prepares breakfast and makes sure the water is hot for bathing,in the evenin the wife comes home early,ensure the supper is ready,the kids are tucked in,then waits for the husband to come so that she opens the door and serve him supper,sa hiyo ananuka kbl na saa nane usiku,then make love to him(zile za warekia hubìra) and the cycle continues with all due respect i dont think its fair its like one married a maid for himself.for example i have cousin when they r havin ugali for supper,she cooks twice one for the family and another when the hubby comes home,hawezi kula baridi,sa hiyo ni saa nane usiku,and he is against buying a microwave ati ita overload stima,hii ni maisha?