Would you allow your spouse to communicate to his/her x even if its about business? my spose claims am overeacting coz i found out he has been communicating to his ex who's already married.


Life is about taking risks.

@ Luisa.....ask Njung'e to lend u his smoking gun

NEVER HONOUR A PROMISE THAT PUTS YOU AT A DISADVANTAGE!!!

Call up your ex too and you'll know the real meaning of 'overreacting'

ili iwe funzo...

Case of an old flame that's hard to flicker away.

There's more than meets the eye dear ........




The Hedonist

Just tell him calmly you are not comfortable with the business arrangement. Ask him how he would feel if tables were turned and you had to do business with your ex. He should be reasonable enough to get another business partner or involve you more in the business.



For me its a NO NO!



Precious

Hii mambo ni ngumu sana. Just try n bring him closer,bt dnt overpamper him otherwise u wil bore him too soon. Make it very clear u dnt want that business,bt again,talk to him politely like a mature woman,dnt pull hairs,dnt scream,dnt tell the world. If he loves u,he will get the msg loud n clear.

The only reason why some people are still alive is coz its illegal to shoot them!!

comes with too much emotion. Cases of the x aren't easily judged. Were they in a compromising situation?
I always think that if its really biz then ur confidence shld be won by you attending such meetings

blackman

I'll have to agree with tamtam on this one,guys have a way of reacting when we're told what if the tables were turned. Even if you were not conscious of the fact that your better half is not bothered by the situation coz she shouldn't (if the case),you're more careful about it. If you antagonize him,however,he'll go on doing the same thing behind your back,which will just open a pandora's box. Just tell him how you feel,you'll be surprised it hadn't crossed his mind,especially if there's nothing going on and it's just a plain ol' business deal. Maybe the ex has more business acumen than you that can benefit him. But if you don't tell him,you'll just make it worse. We're not mind readers you know...

smano

@smao- its not that kind of business. she was selling him some form of investment.

Life is about taking risks.

So is it just this once ama she's been selling him investments for a while now. Sasa,shida ni nini if it's a good investment? Am I missing something here?

smano