Mkomeshe......Do what a woman has got to do to keep her man......can call the X and stop her from snooping in your marriage...Matusi kidogo may do


Rules of the game here:

Before you post anything think.give facts only..It's a serious blog for serious people....Do not insult your brother....respect one another...Just be good

I think luisa means that ... the name of the X in the phone book is saved as Kamau instead of Lucy

Rules of the game here:

Before you post anything think.give facts only..It's a serious blog for serious people....Do not insult your brother....respect one another...Just be good

the fact that she was there before you doesnt give her/him the right to do things behind your back. why didn't he marry her in the first place? Fight for your man gal.....i feel you.

Do not judge a book by its cover.

Lucy saved as Kamau? Hapa ninaona X-files kabisa.

However there is another angle to all this: why is it that ladies usually have a problem when the man communicates with the ex (or even other ladies in general) more than men are concerned when the tables are reversed?

Ladies tend to be more insecure about their man's relationships with persons of the opposite sex.

That has been my own observation. But I stand corrected.

This is a general comment @Luisa and I am not necessarily referring to your situation.

Now these are problems women bring upon themselves. Snooping around and being suspicious. Does the man sleep away from home every night? Has he abdicated any of his responsibilities as husband and father? Has he caused you physical harm? Has he been disrespectful to you? Is he unaware or ignorant about the use of the condom? If all these are in the negative stop digging baby unless you just love dirt and cant live without a quarrel!!! A man is either happily married or faithful. In a majority of men these two are mutually exclusive. Live and let live.

Weusi wa nywele za mshtakiwa zaonyesha ujinga alio nao

@Kusadikika............A man is either happily married or faithful. In a majority of men,these two are mutually exclusive.............I DIDN'T KNOW THAT!!!!!

Just keep off your partners phone!!!!

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@ Mukiha. Where are you? Give us your thoughts on this one.

@ luisa just to clarify this for you,its not your place to allow or disallow your spouse certain liaisons,though you have a right to express an opinion on whether you approve or disapprove of such relations. This is because the person concerned is an adult with no obligation to act on permission granted by you but should out of respect for the marriage institution give serious consideration to your views and if in disagreement let you know with reasons. This aside,that that the ex's details are saved incognito demonstrate ill intent. Your call is to decide what option you want to pursue,ignore,express disapproval and request for change from the spouse,pray and wait for divine intervention,believe the story about business and request from shareholding....... Bottomline,its really for you to decide on what works for you after weighing all the options. All the best,remember HIV bado iko!!