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Kasheshi
#1 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 8:35:00 AM
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Was just reading the story of the governor of southern california who admitted to having an affair with an argentianian lady. His wife has helped him get to where he is today. So it made me wonder,is it better to be a long suffering wife or a mistress who gets the spoils that others have worked hard to build?

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Goals
#2 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:27:00 AM
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The bible says,Never make a woman cry,God counts her tears.

If you are a mistress going to enjoy the hard earn sweat of your co-wife just know that yiu are cursed and so are your offsprings. It never works!!!1


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Wini the pooh
#3 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:47:00 AM
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Its wrong to eat on others sweat,but since the question is one or the other,better be a mistress..........
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giddy
#4 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:52:00 AM
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Being either has its own challenges.If you cant be either would advice be yourself and enjoy life.
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missydear
#5 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:52:00 AM
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How annoying it is to see that this is debatable?

obviously it better being the wife. The toiling wife will always be there and will be always regarded first in all.

It a waste of time bieng a mistress,as you will be the second option in all matters


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forget about the failures and the negatives in our lives.
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ikonini
#6 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:06:00 AM
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@Goals

interesting......whats the bible verse again??

nini iko????
MAKE A CHOICE TO TAKE A CHANCE OR YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER CHANGE.
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Fundaah
#7 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:13:00 AM
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http://canacommunity.org...ebration-of-the-female/

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B.Timer
#8 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:15:00 AM
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South Carolina.

Remenber the mistress is now dumped.
They only last till they are discovered.
Wanna consider such short & unpredictable stints.

B.timer
Dunia ni msongamano..
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Ja-Kom
#9 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:23:00 AM
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@Goals,The phrase is not from the Bible,but the Hebrew Talmud..........
the book where all of the sayings and preaching of Rabbis are conserved over time.

It says:

'Be very careful if you make a woman
cry,because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be
walked on. Not from his head to be superior,but
from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be
protected,and next to the heart to be loved.'............

Am not married yet,but i think i would go for a wife..........not the mistress.


For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners,so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous.
Romans 5:19
For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous. Romans 5:19
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Otiendes
#10 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:41:00 AM
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what type of crying... vatican has ruled out some types of crying

Vatican Press Release
'Be all Women informed that
lying in bed,naked,entangled with somebody and screaming:

*Oh my God* *Oh my God* *Oh my God*

WILL NOT

be considered PRAYING'
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Kasheshi
#11 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 1:19:00 PM
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@ Otiendes,LOL!

The worst thing would be for the man to contract a disease then transmit it to the faithful wife. Most unfair


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wote
#12 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 1:21:00 PM
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@Kasheshi,what has money or wealth got to do with the matters of the heart?

Just remember the saying that life is short,so if i get to live for only ninty years and in those years a wife or mistress makes me happy. I would choose the one that gives/ or makes me happiness/happy.



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mlefu
#13 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 2:07:00 PM
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i told my girl i will never cheat on her and she didnt believe..says it will happen as long as there is a male involved......thats a line from her that i wish i never heard........ thats the 1st time i banged the door flaps.

like Renne says in another thread..why chase the 20 %.. on average meaning some just chase a % and lose the 99%..damn pple WHY?



why keep one fish in a glass aquarium while you can have all the fish in the ocean?
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LimuruBoy
#14 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:51:00 PM
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@mlefu,you have a very good galfriend for already forgiving you for what you will do in the future. ...and cheating won't happen coz u're bad person...but rather because it's inbuilt in you. I know u don't believe me probably coz u're too young to know...but wait a few years. You'll see for urself.

'All they see is my glory...they don't know my pain. Nothing good comes easy in life.'
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Mainat
#15 Posted : Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:29:00 PM
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Polygamy might be the answer...

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simonkabz
#16 Posted : Friday, June 26, 2009 4:06:00 AM
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@limuru,kwani u r 60??

The only reason why some people are still alive is coz its illegal to shoot them!!
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pm
#17 Posted : Friday, June 26, 2009 4:18:00 AM
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Actually,it's Mark Sanford the Republican governor of South Carolina ...








It's unnatural for a man to be expected to live a monogamous life,you may do so but you will always be suppressing your natural instincts... I think the West's family life is nuts,and we should resist that kind of self-confining lifestyle… it is too unnatural and stressful.

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Kasheshi
#18 Posted : Friday, June 26, 2009 7:13:00 AM
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@ pm if it's so unnatural for a man to be monogamous then God would have created Adam and Eve,Wangui and Atieno.

Incidentally,I can't remember the source but in olden times men were polygamous because many of the men died in the numerous wars that were forever being fought. Just read the old testament and you'll understand that there must have been an oversupply of women compared to men. So the remaining men married many wives to reduce poverty.


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The Real Shaft
#19 Posted : Friday, June 26, 2009 7:53:00 AM
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the issue about marriage and religion.....

has been convoluted by their supposed connectivity......

and all the while ......

we can not speak of religion.....

and,marriage....

unless there are human beings.....

the basic principle of life....

should be to strike a compromise...

between the demands of.....

others from you..

and you from others......

if you can not be monogamous......

dont marry a wife and promise to remain monogamous.....

tell her from the beginning....

that you have a propensity to share the love.....

and ladies....

sadly...

you are too many.....

seeking a shoulder to cry on.....

a hairy chest to nap on......

strong arms to hug you....

we are not enough men to go round.....

so....

remember..... a man bila chic...... aint worth the lady he is married to.....

I'm the real Massey F.....shut your mouth
I'm the real Massey Fergu...... Shut your mouth....
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Maoni
#20 Posted : Friday, June 26, 2009 8:20:00 AM
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Have a wife becoz its a responsibility...

keep a mistress to keep u glowing if and only if ...your wife is too boring


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