Mali ya Mungu

From your post,i guess you married recently and the challanges you are going is just misunderstandings .Learning is a process and at this time all you need is proper communication in the house.Be real,let her understand you,your likes & dislikes.In short,you need to talk & address this nagging issues.Rebuke her in love.At some point you might need to compromise for her sake & she should do the same to you if she is wise enough.No one is perfect and so you need to accommodate her to extent .

therez no short cut,if you are a husband,you MUST love your wife and she MUST submit to your authority.Its also Important that you pray to God to bring understanding between the two of you.The sad thing about it is that you have nicknamed her the devil.Men,that is wrong.There is power in a spoken word and so that would only worsen the situation.Can you give her new names like....darling.sweetheart,My dear......etc.Am sure you were using them before you started staying together,now what has changed apart from getting used to one another?

Wish you luck?



Without Holiness no man shall see God.Dear God,mould me to be a vessel of honour at this End times,to remain Obedient to your Word in all situations.Amen!

@mali ya Mungu

Your wife wants ATTENTION! And nothing can take the place of that. The most desirable gift to your woman is not diamonds or roses or chocolate. These are good but what she wants is focused attention. Give her attention,time ant treat her as queen in the house. She will treat you as the king that you are. Above all love her affectionately and she may respond with less naggings.



The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty,but those of everyone who is hasty,surely to poverty.

Do you guys comment on your wife/chics hair when she's made it?
What is the correct answer to' "Do I look fat/big in this outfit?"

@Jokimy...MARRY ME! If only all men thought like you1

Mali Ya Mungu. I sympathize with you. But you are not alone. This is what drives men to have "mpango wa kando" relationships because they cannot stand their wives behavior. But that is escaping from the problem instead of dealing with it. Nagging in engraved in the woman's DNA thus most if not all will Nag but off course the degree of nagging differs. So my friend you are not alone.

Talk to her and tell her what bothers you. Be open about what you feel. It may be that her self esteem is low and she is taking it out on you. Make sure you assure her that you love her very much but the nagging must stop maybe she will listen. If she does not then see a counselor or ask your mother or her mother to talk to her.

why cant you leave those nagging wives. kwani what do they have that others don't? mumekaliwa chapo?

marriage ni kamiti - serve your time and get out ie till death do u part or divorce.

Half of marital problems are attitude based.... Try changing your attitude and see how it works... usually, your partner will change hers too. Now depends whether you will change it clockwise or anticlockwise..

Chepkel...Nice advice...Hope you will be able to say the same when your time comes...

A friend of mine once told me "Marriage is like a cage whereby those birds which are outside are eager to get in and those which are inside are desperate to get out"
And yet another singer said " uhiki wi murio aaiii wi murio"
I hope to be there one day.