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Rank: Member Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 9
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Dear Skerians. I have a demon of a wife. I do everything for her but she cant get satisfied. I travel abroad alot and bring her all the good clothes a woman needs. The latest outburst has been that I dont tell her she looks smart whenever she wears those clothes I bought her. Do i need to tell her everyday that she is smart?. I am the one who bought the clothes and know that they would look nice on her. Otherwise I wouldn't have bought them. Is she suffering from low self esteem? She also tells me that I like music more than I like her. Am I living with a psycho? Do other men experience this kind of nagging. Please let me know.
Mali ya Mungu
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/17/2008 Posts: 23,365 Location: Nairobi
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Satanic wife gives a wrong impression then!!!! Make money.....then you will enjoy all the fine things in life!!! ..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/14/2008 Posts: 107
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let me laugh kwanza before I fikiria an answer,,,,,eh eh ha ha haaaaa satanic wife wa wa wa
Gravity; Its not just the law,its reality.
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 9
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ok. I have done some editing. Let me just say she is nagging,nagging on almost everything.
Mali ya Mungu
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/8/2008 Posts: 82
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Man,be fare.....................
Next time you bring her cloths...................
Tell her to try them out.........................
Like she pops into the bedroom and comes out in one................
If it fits...............................
Tell her she looks stunning......................
Tell her to try the others........................
Do likewise to most of those which fit her........................
But make sure you frown at one or two which you are sure don't fit.........................
See if she will insist on wearing the ones you frowned at............................
That is how we were made..............................
To be appreciated by others..........................
Especially when its our soulpartners.......................
When it fits,and you say it looks good on her.................
The reason you bought the cloths has more meaning....................
I can go on and on but you men.................................
Even when we cook a nice meal.............................
You just belch and snooz............................
Please be able to appreciate something verbally...................
Take one step at a time.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/9/2008 Posts: 2,824
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@mali ya Mungu.....sugarcane hupeani ya kutosha!!! fundaahh If you have money that you expect to start using in five years,it now belongs in stocks. When I have money, I get rid of it quickly, lest it find a way into my heart.
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 9
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@Kingfisher: I do give enough of that. You can imagne if I did not give enough of that. I would already have been run of town!!!
@Kamurigo: It is like there are no other things to do in this world!. If she wears a dress I do no like I tell her so. If I do not tell it is not good,she should understand that I am impressed. Is there a school for learning and undestanding women? If there is,I guess I should register and get to learn more about my partner.
Mali ya Mungu
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/6/2009 Posts: 172
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It is obvious that yu are not satisfying her. So what do you want us to do about it....I have dildos,maybe that will help you.
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 9
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@Nanfor. No,Dildos are used by perverts like you...
Mali ya Mungu
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/23/2008 Posts: 3,017
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@ Maliyamungu Sorry man,I think you are in some deep s**t here. Wives are not supposed to behave like that. How about you call her bluff. Next time she throws a tantrum,why not throw an even bigger one. Attack her (not physically) so viciously,such that she gets thrown offguard. That way,she will learn to pick her fights. After that leave,on one of your foreign trips without telling her where you are going. See what happens the next time you return,without any new clothes for her,let her buy herself her own clothes. I guess if you can't win with facts,you can always pen bile-laced,xenophobic rants to distract everyone. "The purpose of bureaucracy is to compensate for incompetence and lack of discipline." James Collins
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/6/2009 Posts: 172
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Ati a pervert. You come here to tell us about your wife and call me a pervert?.....Like I said,go get a dildo,you may at last manage to satisfy her. Otherwise peleka upusi wako nyumbani.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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I have come to notice something in this site... whenever a man comes here with a problem that he needs help,we bash him and belittle him telling him how inadequate he is... am starting to wonder,really,does it mean all that women do is excused in the name of 'man not giving enough sugarcane,man not sensitive enough,man not....blablabla..' am a woman,but sometimes i know women can drive men up and down the wall... this i talk out of my brothers galfriend.... she is one of those psychos who will want you to say 'i love you,you are the most beautiful woman in the world.... sugar honey sweet nothing' every minute you see her passing past you watching soccer in the house.... Its hard... its really hard... i see what he goes through....
gals need some self esteem.... really..... Once in a while you need compliments but ALL the time????
@nanfor..........................................................................................................................
Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/6/2009 Posts: 172
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@Wendz,I was not bashing the guy. I gave him some good advice. To go get a dildo then he became all defensive.
Here is my olive branch.
I am sorry Mali ya Mungu because it seems that your wife is asking for too much from you. If I were you I would not buy a dildo. The next time you go for your trips abroad,instead of buying her clothes( since it is obvious you have no taste),you should try something else.
Maybe next time you should buy TWO DILDOS.
Sorry,Wendz I tried.
If the guy doesn't know how to please his woman,he will end up telling us on TV he only has one wife. Such a pathetic sight,you may agree.
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/19/2009 Posts: 9
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@Mali ya mungu - I never know why learned SK members like abusing one another. Anyway,just to help you,I have come to study likes of women. They mind so much abt 'what they want to hear'. My partner is similar to yours. Imagine every morning,she wants to be told 'you are smart','you look younger than your age' etc. I realized if I dont tell her,she will ask me. Since it costs nothing,I decided to be telling her often.
Behold whenever I drop her at offce,she requests to be pecked b4 moving out of the car. I find it very demanding,but I say - I lose nothing if this makes her happy. Does your wife also like alot of romance b4 sex?
'Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it'. Santayana,Philosopher
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2007 Posts: 8,776 Location: Cameroon
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@wendz,wow! Umeongea kama wamama 50! Women...I also dont really understand them. Just be patient n if u cant,then try throw a similar one at her n try all those tricks obi said. @nanfor,thats gross! Truest proverb: Mwenda pole hajikwai TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2007 Posts: 8,776 Location: Cameroon
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@wendz,wow! Umeongea kama wamama 50! Women...I also dont really understand them. Just be patient n if u cant,then try throw a similar one at her n try all those tricks obi said. @nanfor,thats gross! Truest proverb: Mwenda pole hajikwai TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2007 Posts: 8,776 Location: Cameroon
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@wendz,wow! Umeongea kama wamama 50! Women...I also dont really understand them. Just be patient n if u cant,then try throw a similar one at her n try all those tricks obi said. @nanfor,thats gross! Truest proverb: Mwenda pole hajikwai TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/23/2008 Posts: 3,017
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@Wamukiva you made me smile. What do you mean she requests to be pecked. She should not be requesting this,you should be kissing her full on the lips when dropping her,c'mon,you are stuck with the woman for life,you should be enjoying going through the motions. So square your shoulders and give her something to keep her going for the day. I guess if you can't win with facts,you can always pen bile-laced,xenophobic rants to distract everyone. "The purpose of bureaucracy is to compensate for incompetence and lack of discipline." James Collins
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/6/2008 Posts: 13
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Some assistance to you my brother;
Do exactly what @ Obi has advised. In addition never buy anything less requested and even if requested be very difficult berfore giving in. Next,never comment the way she looks unless asked. and lastly ignore all her comments that you don't consider important,comment nothing hear nothing about such comments. Not to forget your music do what makes you happy and let her know clearly never about what you love and what you hate.
Kim
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Rank: Member Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 9
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@nanfor - You use dildos and want to tell me you are not a sexual pervert? Anyway,I understand you are a woman,how do they feel and where can I get them?
Mali ya Mungu
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