And the right woman misleads him?

IGANA.

disclaimer does not apply here.
anyway..since you are the only single SKerian i know.. convince me that your thinking has nothing to do with your planned marriage..whats up?

muthomi mugi aiikagia maitho kabere...

Married men live longer,but are much more willing to kick the bucket! Why then not live a short but QUALITY life?

Truest proverb: Mwenda pole hajikwai

Aman is not a man without the woman i.e aman bila mke ni 50% au nusu mwanaume

Without Holiness no man shall see God.Dear God,mould me to be a vessel of honour at this End times,to remain Obedient to your Word in all situations.Amen!

Seriously..discussion in a men's fellow..a pastor brought it up ..Thanx to all pre marital counselling and married counsellings his been doing... Sad really...had it not been for the wives n significant others..all them slick rides and massionettes wouldn't be owned by dudes! Comfortable livin in a bedsitter with a huge tv drivin some beat down rusty imprezza...and speculatin n gambling like whoa!!

DISCLAIMER: This is the opinion of one Jammo,CFA,CPA,Opinionated and Loud,based in nairobi. Whilst care has been taken in compiling the data to be as most factual n logical,he doesn't accept any responsibility of accuracy or completeness of info contained herein..neither does he purport to be a genius!

vuka where?

looking at it this way..
they will say if you marry young..like Jammo,there are youthful things that you will miss,problem is that they will hunt you in old age and whatever the case you will have to do them..when you get to 40 and still single..thats unheard..

muthomi mugi aiikagia maitho kabere...

@jammo
do you know there is nothing sweet in a woman safe for continuity of species?do you know if you saw some other things you wouldn't eat for the next two day?so my friend if you are single just take your time,don't aspire to own one haraka coz you may be disappointed with yourself between personally i would choose food over woman..btw Guka is my hero he married at 47

'When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door,that we do not see the ones which open for us'.

on the subject...the assertion is flawed..it assumes most women will be oriented to pick rudderless men..the truth is women are attracted to relatively successful..read go-getting..men in whatever subject area..like Eve..they are compliments..not the determinants in your journey there..lastly all generalisations are false..including this one..with free will,individuals are free to be whom and whatever they want to be.. regardless of their environment..its easier to get where you're going with a lifelong partner.

@Ecstacy

You are on the right track. Women,by nature look for security for herself and her brood so they will ordinarily look for those qualities in a man that point towards capability,responsible,caring etc... The differences in women when it comes to the kind of guys they choose depends on how they view their insecurities... some will go for love,others for potential to provide,others will outrightly go for the material things....... this is not just in human,its also in some animals.... look at how birds and some of the wild animals choose the male that sires their offsprings... you might understand more.... An eagle is a good one to study... the male is subjected to serious 'interview'.

So,when a woman gets into a man's life,thats how you find them pushing to own a house(read security for offsprings),own property or investment (read future security),etc... the man,having been presented with such expectations and not wanting to let his family down he works through the night to provide for them... the more reason why people say that when men get married,their doors open and they are blessed.... Its the expectations put before them not that they have a choice........ that doesnt mean that when they are single they dont work hard. they do,but ask them the bottomline. It will be 'so that i can provide for my family'..... They know the responsibility once the lady of the house shows up.... the expectations will be high... sometimes its in the sub-conscious mind.

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

Itrs true - what a young man needs is a self confident chick who knows what she wants to come into his life and straighten him ouuut! Normally to the disgust of the 'boys'

but as Napoleon hill says -Nothing great would ever have been achieved if it wasnt for the power of a focused woman


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