what were you doing ukiwa 27yrs,28 yrs? ama you were the player type? si ati wamedisappear,jus that you were not serious with them...

From a Little Spark may burst a Mighty Flame...

never heard a man exclaim 'gosh!' before...

..... the sons of Zeruiah .....

@mtubiz True dat! Avoid words like gosh,just imagine etc You come out as an effeminate metrosexual who will duck under the bed when there is a noise outside at night.


Me first,U next

@Cherubin,
I feel u bro. Im thea also. Infact +1 of hio yako. But all the mamas iv met in the last 3yrs are just not wife material. Iv really taftad.
But i have a 6yr old son.

pole sana bwanawe!!!

radhi nakuomba kwa maswali haya. umekuwa ukitafuta bibi ama ndio unatafuta sasa?,kwanini haujafaulu kama umekuwa ukitafuta bibi?,unatafuta bibi aina gani ama mwenye tabia zipi?,na umekuwa ukitafuta bibi wapi?

kwa hayo zangu nakwend nikikutakia kila la kheri kwenye harakati zako za kutafuta bibi....lakini nakusihi ya kwamba; tafuta rafiki mwanzo halafu umkolee kama bibiyo.


'Advice is like snow; the softer it falls,the longer it dwells upon,and the deeper it sinks into the mind' Samuel Taylor Coleridge

A man is not defined by what others think of him! Duh! Goshest!!

..if it is not expressly prohibited in law.. DO IT!!!!

32 is rather late my friend.

at 29,I've been married for 2 years,

best advise so far is that of @djfi.....swahili speaker.... be friends first (preferably with several mamas),observe,test and make a decision


El Gato Negro

@ Black cat,

during this period of friendship with several mama's as i do my assessing,do i sleep with all of them as well? ama hapo kunaenda aje?

mtaa do wat?

if you have the money,you could marry at 50 and then uzae kama panya....be sure that 5 years after marriage you have at least 5 children....by the time you are 75-80 they will be adults and you will enjoy your family life the best way possible.

if you are broke,like njung'e said you might find yourself still struggling to educate your children in secondary school at the age of 75 years.....tumana utafutiwe bibi if you dont know how to do that!!!!!!


NEVER TALK OF A RHINO IF THERE IS NO TREE NEAREBY - ZULU PROVERB

They are there in millions,men just dont know how to hunt. Women are no longer looking for Mr Boss in the house. Boss is in the office.

Instint' does exist,women generally ignore them but those millions am talking about will not. When you think you have hunted and ati its in the bag.Who said the hunt will stay.

All it means respect the propective hunt and the one that is in the bag.You might just discover heaven.

How do you respect.........................home work my friends. Its time you worked hard for good women,because they are there.

1st clue your personal defination of a good woman,note the word personal.



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