There are many accidents on the road. You dont however lock yourself in your house and say you'll not go anywhere because there might be an accident. You will hear horror stories and success stories but life doesnt allow you to use anyone's story to decide, or even get a peek at how yours will turn out.

I am happily married. Not a perfect person though! Neither I'm I perfect. But I am happy in my marriage.Very happy I can say after 10 years.

I envy you if you are honest. Ive been married for over 6 years but sometimes I get some triggers that can make me say enough is enough, somehow , through the Neema ya bwana , we have stuck together. But sometimes I feel that nothing like love exist in marriage , It's just interests .Such Interests make you stay together. Sometimes we are very happy , others we are almost exchanging blows , I think this is not what marriage was meant to be .Weren't it made to be happily there after? Kwanza mabibi wamesoma na wenye kazi !!! bad news they can make you go mad. Kama hujaoa , go to the village get mmoja amemaliza form 4, uzimzoeshe Nai asichanuke , wacha hakae kulekuleeee

@User, Your marriage is still very young and hopefully,as you go along things will improve.I have been in it for long but i can attest to the fact that our marriage is much happier than it was 15 years ago.I can't remember the last time we quarrelled even though it used to be so frequent then.

16 Years now with BIIIG problems along the way. But the last 5 Years have been very good. I can say we understand each other better now. If you see us at a Club you wud think we fell in love yesterday.