@ all kukaliwa na kukaliwa chapo in this case is an understatement.
@ Chris unaingia nyumbani kama kuku na 'bibi' anaingia asubuhi kama amelewa and you go ahead and open the door for her and you do not want the nieghbours to talk - Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.
She is business minded and has a game/business plan
I think you need to be scared into action,a law was passed recently that if you cohabit with a woman for 2yrs unaenda kuchukua certificate of marriage - How many months do you have left?
With evidence that you cohabited for 2yrs and therefore became your wife,she will divorce you take half your hard earned property and to add insult to injury you will pay her alimony.
My advice establish a company and transfer all your assets to it to protect them,since you are not willing to do anything else
'If you are not living on the edge,you are taking up too much space'
"We do not inherit the earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children" Native American Proverb